NO…no…no it’s C-O-C-K -cock- not J-O-C-K

A cock ring is most often used to make an erect penis harder and bigger, to keep it that way for a longer amount of time, and to delay and heighten orgasm.  Cock rings work by constricting blood flow, keeping blood in the shaft of the penis.  When a wearer finally does ejaculate, the sensation is more intense, since it took a longer time to come, and because the penis is filled with additional blood.

Men use cock rings with partners and/or by themselves.  Some are actual rings as their name suggests, made of metal or rubber.  Since these cock rings are not adjustable, the right size needs to be chosen for a proper fit.If not…OUCH!  For example, one that fits too tightly could be hard to remove and could cut off circulation in the penis entirely.  Metal rings can cause a rash or other skin reactions in some men, so this is something to consider when shopping around.  Adjustable cock rings made of rawhide or leather straps are easier for beginners to use since the fit can be changed, and taking them off is more manageable.  Avoid using cock ring substitutes; rubber bands, binder clips, and vices, for example, cause too much constriction.

Cock rings fit over the shaft and the testicles/scrotum when a man is not erect.  Ball by ball, the testicles go through, then the penis shaft dives in head first through the remaining ring space.  The ideal cock ring stays in place when the penis is soft, yet it can fairly easily slip off or unsnap when the penis is hard.  Lube can be added to make putting rings on and taking them off a little easier — something that works for finger and toe rings, too. These are great for men with ED issues.

O.k. now, for safety and pleasure, a cock ring needs to increase the size of the erection only slightly.  If you notice more pronounced swelling, then the fit is too tight.  In that case, take the cock ring off immediately.  It’s also vital for men to take off their cock ring at the first sign of pain or if the genitals feel cold.  In addition, it’s dangerous to leave a ring on for too long, including wearing one to sleep when spontaneous erections are all the rage.

WARNING….WARNING…WARNING!!!!!

An erection of several hours can cause blood coagulation in the penis, making it difficult to lose the erection.  This is called priapism, a prolonged erection.  Since new blood cannot enter the penis, this can be severely painful and cause permanent damage to the erectile tissue.  If this happens to you, seek medical attention as soon as possible, and don’t worry — the staff at the ER has seen this before.

Another place you might want to forgo a cock ring around your penis is the airport.

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What’s Your Sign??

Homosexual dating has become much more widespread and accepted in Western culture, allowing both gays and lesbians the chance to reach out to one another beyond that of closed doors. Now there are many ways you can have a rewarding homosexual dating experience, so don’t be afraid to get out there and explore all of the potential relationships you can create at a wonderful same-sex communities.

True love knows no boundaries, has no discrimination and only wishes to be shared with another who returns the same emotions.
Gay dating is about finding someone who feels the same way you do,  (same as straight folks), enjoys spending time with you, treats you with respect and makes you feel like an equal. It is about being apart of a relationship with mutual understanding, which has the potential to forge a strong connection between both you and your partner.
Like any dating experience, there will be certain setbacks and struggles that you may face during homosexual dating.

As a gay or lesbian, you should not feel that you need to grab any opportunity that comes your way ( that applies to straight too).  There is no harm in starting as friends and working slowly into the relationship to discover how much you have in common. As long as you are honest with your feelings, you should have no problem finding a partner.

In general dating is how you can establish an amazing connection with someone who understands you, and loves you for who you are with no questions asked. Even though you will meet some people who are destined to give you a hard time with your sexual preference, all you can do is trust your own judgments, be true to yourself, and give your love and time to those

Don’t Just Spray It!!

 

Once a man has reached the point in his sexual development where he begins to understand that just “getting off” isn’t satisfying him or his partner, he craves for more.

And in his heart he knows there is more, but often doesn’t know how to achieve these higher pleasures. Tantra teaches us that for a man to achieve the highest ecstasy possible for himself and his lover, he first needs to learn ejaculation control and to direct his sexual energy up his spine to the higher centers of his brain. In Tantra  this sexual energy is known as “kundalini” energy.
When a man masters the ability to move his kundalini energy up along his spine, he increases the pleasure for himself and his lover to levels that he might never have dreamed of.

As a man learns to master the movement his sexual energy within his body, he will be able to control his ejaculation. At this point he is free to make love “without” feeling the pressure to ejaculate. A man’s sensitivity and awareness is profoundly heightened to the subtle and refined pleasures of lovemaking. He steps into an expanded state of consciousness, which allows him to achieve “multiple” (yes, men can have ’em too) and “full-body orgasms”. The benefits of “full-body” orgasm are many. Full-body orgasm frees him from stress and tensions, heals his prostate gland, opens his heart and connects him deeper to his lover and himself. It also facilitates the man in experiencing multiple orgasms. By “multiple” is not to imply “multiple ejaculations”, but rather that once a man learns to move his kundalini energy through his body he can have orgasms and not ejaculate. This is known as a “dry orgasm” or none-ejaculatory orgasm.  Men who have had their prostate removed have dry orgasm.
Men have a tremendous capacity for pleasure and orgasm that is virtually untouched for most men. As a man masters tantra practice and higher energy movement, he begins to view his penis as an instrument of a deeper love connection with the woman. This deeper connection facilitates moving the woman to the highest states of ecstasy and orgasmic pleasure that she can achieve. Allowing the man and woman to continue to build higher levels of ecstasy together.

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Is it Hooker or Whore??

Prostitution has been called “the world’s oldest profession”.

Why? Power? Money? or maybe importunity?

Many people believe that men have the power in this world simply because they are bigger than woman and physically stronger than women. While it is generally true that men are physically stronger than women, there is an even more powerful truth behind that truth which was dramatized by “The Trojan Women”. Have you ever heard the old saying, “Behind every powerful man, there is a woman”? Remember  Mickey Mouse had Minnie.

Ever since the beginning of recorded human history, men have found two simple solutions to their problem of intolerable sexual frustration. I don’t include happily married men who are able to maintain their marriages without ever cheating, but I am including the married men who do cheat. A solution for men is prostitution and it is extremely common for men to use prostitutes so that they can live out fantasies which they cannot or will not enjoy with their wives. Nowadays women are able to earn money by using their non-sexual talents and abilities, but many women still choose to do it by renting their bodies and that’s self-evident because of the great number of very intelligent prostitutes.

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Pornography really began to flourish after the development of the Kodak camera. Prior to the invention of photographs, drawings were created by horny men who were not very good artists. Many women believe that pornography is all about degradation of women by men who are exploiting them. Betty Page, the very first photographed “pin-up girl”, would have disputed that theory from her own personal experience. Betty discovered that she was extremely turned on by being photographed in sexy poses. Men quickly discovered an almost universal desire to look at photographs of nude women. Almost immediately after Betty’s photos were published, many other women discovered the same desire in themselves and began to fantasize about being able to do the same thing that Betty did.

Hugh Hefner was in the right place at the right time with the right concept, and he accumulated an enormous fortune by publishing the first mass magazine that featured beautiful nude women. Do you remember who the first centerfold was? It was Marilyn Monroe. Marilyn was already becoming a movie star and she certainly didn’t need to put herself out to the public that way. Within a very short amount of time, other pornographic magazines sprung into existence because so many men were jealous of Hefner and were attempting to do the same thing. There was never a shortage of willing female models and it’s ridiculous to believe that all of them allowed themselves to be degraded. Right?

One serious problem for prostitutes has traditionally been how to get paying clients without the risk of physical danger. The newest solution to that problem is the internet. The number of women who have posted pornographic photos to the internet is beyond calculation and there are a prodigious number of prostitutes who have discovered its safe marketing power.Talk about sexual power!

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Opinions are like assholes…..some you like..some you wanna rip apart.

The anus is a sensual erogenous zone. It’s directly connected with the nervous system that conveys the feeling of sexual pleasure to the mind and evokes a physical response. Sexual excitement can turn palms red, wet the vagina, and rhythmically contract anal muscles( that means cumin’).  For heterosexual couples if during anal coitus, the  clitoris, vagina,or penis aren’t stimulated…. . They can get sensual pleasure from voluptuous anal manipulations.  And for homosexual couples if during anal coitus the vagina or penis aren’t stimulated…. . They can get the same  oooo lala from butt play.

Anal sex toys vary greatly.

The whole range of these devices suit both men, and women to the same extent. There are toys for self-stimulation and for games between partners.

Anal sex toys, can be easily distinguished because of their wide base or handle crosscut valve. The reason for this is to avoid unwanted penetration of separate parts or the whole device into the anus. YIKES! You see, our bowels are very long and the rectum isn’t straight at all (key point there so pay attention) but has some curves in the sacral bone and perineum. Consequently, objects can easily fall inside. PLUCK!

Should this happen, immediately visit your doctor and frankly tell about your “loss” whether you want it or not. The doctor will never cast distrustful and astonished glances at a patient. He or she knows that such things happen and even more often than we can imagine. Surgeons extract all manner of things from people’s bowels like  dildos made of thick rubber, spray cans, coca-cola cans, champagne bottles, radio valves, candles, newspapers, ping-pong balls, spade handles, table legs and Hoover attachments. The exquisite refinement of sex has no limits.

Moreover, erotic anal games should not obligatory end with coitus. Anus tongue or finger stimulation will also bring your partner much pleasure.