Monthly Archives: September 2012

LOOK…there is an old pussy on the loose!

Kids, I wrote about this earlier, but I thought it deserved another glance.

There is often a belief in society that men enjoy sex much more than women.  (crazy!)  Women often worry about issues such as pregnancy, they have their hands full with too many things, or they aren’t happy with their body. Yet they continue to engage in sexual activities as a way to keep their partner happy.That called fucking without fun. Women are very good at doing what is going to keep others happy. It is often a part of their very giving nature.

Some people say that many women enjoy sex more as they get older. There are many researchers who will tell you it has to do with changes in the body. A woman may find it easier to have an orgasm when she is in her 30’s. She may have come to terms with how her body looks or be with the same partner long enough to be very comfortable communicating what it is that she wants.

This results in sex becoming something that a woman can enjoy and look forward to when she is older. It has more to do with intimacy than with just being sexy for someone. Since sex isn’t the core of the relationship when you are older and the pressure is off a woman to look perfect and to perform perfectly. This can help it to be something enjoyable instead of another time when she continues to critic herself.

Listen, most men won’t admit it, but they often focused on their own sexual needs when they were younger as well. Older men are known to be able to please a woman better. More women are opening up to tell others how much they enjoy sex as they mature. This used to be a taboo subject so it was just assumed that they didn’t really participate in it or enjoy it. Yet that seems to be very far from the truth.

Another BIG reason  more mature women find sex extremely gratifying. . .. ? It is exciting to have the freedom to explore their sexuality.  Yep, I said it freedom.

Maturity brings freedom.

miss toy

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Wanna go get Naked??!!

One night stands have never appealed to me, I know several people who would not mind indulging in a bit of casual sex without any hope or binding that it should culminate in a serious relationship. As a general rule, men do not have too many hang-ups about such indulgences. There are a lot of women too, who are not keen on getting into any commitment and can agree to this kind of casual sex with their dating partners. There are very heavy chances though, that during your dating life, you will get into a situation, what I term as reverse-payback. This means that while you get mentally attached to a person who you indulged with, for a quickie, but before you know it, they’ve left you.

If you are seriously contemplating to indulge only in these casual sex encounters, you have to hype up your seduction powers: abundance of humor, charm and the ability to tease your way through, so that your plan bears fruit faster. So if you are in a public arena, move quickly to a more private, romantic and secluded place, where you can communicate one-to-one. While you move away from the public glare, pump up your seducing prowess to the hilt.

In case you are in a quandary, as to which person to select for such a sexual escapade, the right target are those who you have an instant chemistry with. Through the right communication, glances, touches, the instant chemistry “clicks” – and you have found the right person. Please don’t judge these folks as “easy” or “cheap” – it is simply that they are “readily available” at that moment.  But beware, such people fall in to the far side of the range – from “super-easy” to super-rigid” – and all along you must have to practice the basic principles of self-discipline and controlled behavior.

How you manage a one night stand depends primarily on your personality and your requirements. There are many instances where a one night stand has culminated in a brief romantic interlude. Please note that it’s hard to graduate from a one night quickie and glide into a steady, trusted and stable relationship. The basis of almost all short to long-term relationships is, a far more lengthier period of romancing rather than jumping into frenetic sex.

It is beneficial for you to remember one basic fact: honesty is the best policy, even in bed! While you are in the seduction process, be honest and truthful about your intentions, face up to whatever you are committing – do not glib talk your way through right into bed ! For the simple reason, lies ultimately don’t take you anywhere. Not only is deception dishonorable, you do get paid back in your own coin, sooner or later. So, not to scare you with concepts of bad “karma” but as an adult, you know that every action you take today, will pave the way for your tomorrow.

miss toy

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What was infectious?

Now…now… .

Let’s be patient.

Miss Toy wants to ask a question.

What do UT I’s, yeast, and a speculum have in common?

Well, in order to find out come on back Sunday.

I will have some really interesting answers.

In the mean time go over to http://www.sextalkradionetwork.com and look up my show Mperfect.

Post some feedback and let me know what you think.

 

miss toy

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Once more with feeling’

Ever notice how men talk about ‘having sex’ while women talk about ‘making love?’ That kind of hits the nail on the head when it comes to how men and women approach sex.  Men are pretty direct when it comes to sex — they’re aroused easily, usually by visual stimulation, what they see.  Women are much more complex, and require a more complicated experience to become aroused and take longer.

While that sounds simple, (and it is!) if you are going to improve your sexual technique, you must keep it in mind constantly.

So lets talk about this ‘more complicated experience,’ and see what we can learn.
Women enjoy sex with more of their senses, touch, smell, taste, and hearing.

Lets look at a few of these in more detail:

1. Hearing.  Women love to hear romantic sensual things.  Notice that is sensual not sexual language.  Women love to hear you describe your feelings.  Men are more direct and want to hear things like, “you are so big.”  Women like to hear things like, “your skin is so soft.”

2. Touching.  Women love to be touched and stroked. Stroking, cuddling, and touching is all great stuff that arouses women.  Stroke her lightly with the tips of your fingers up and down her body, avoiding sexual areas.

3. Smelling. This could be scented candles or incense.  Women love smelling and being smelled.

4. Tasting. Women love to be fed all kinds of wonderful things like strawberries, sweets, and wine.

5. Sight.  While generally women are not turned on by sight, most women love to look into your eyes.  This kind of ultra-romantic stuff is a huge turn-on for most women.

6. Kissing.  Kissing is a kind of touching.

Remember when you were learning to drive?  One of the first things you learn is – don’t gun the engine while its cold!  Well sex is just like that!

miss toy

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What’s Your Sign??

Homosexual dating has become much more widespread and accepted in Western culture, allowing both gays and lesbians the chance to reach out to one another beyond that of closed doors. Now there are many ways you can have a rewarding homosexual dating experience, so don’t be afraid to get out there and explore all of the potential relationships you can create at a wonderful same-sex communities.

True love knows no boundaries, has no discrimination and only wishes to be shared with another who returns the same emotions.
Gay dating is about finding someone who feels the same way you do,  (same as straight folks), enjoys spending time with you, treats you with respect and makes you feel like an equal. It is about being apart of a relationship with mutual understanding, which has the potential to forge a strong connection between both you and your partner.
Like any dating experience, there will be certain setbacks and struggles that you may face during homosexual dating.

As a gay or lesbian, you should not feel that you need to grab any opportunity that comes your way ( that applies to straight too).  There is no harm in starting as friends and working slowly into the relationship to discover how much you have in common. As long as you are honest with your feelings, you should have no problem finding a partner.

In general dating is how you can establish an amazing connection with someone who understands you, and loves you for who you are with no questions asked. Even though you will meet some people who are destined to give you a hard time with your sexual preference, all you can do is trust your own judgments, be true to yourself, and give your love and time to those

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