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NO…no…no it’s C-O-C-K -cock- not J-O-C-K

A cock ring is most often used to make an erect penis harder and bigger, to keep it that way for a longer amount of time, and to delay and heighten orgasm.  Cock rings work by constricting blood flow, keeping blood in the shaft of the penis.  When a wearer finally does ejaculate, the sensation is more intense, since it took a longer time to come, and because the penis is filled with additional blood.

Men use cock rings with partners and/or by themselves.  Some are actual rings as their name suggests, made of metal or rubber.  Since these cock rings are not adjustable, the right size needs to be chosen for a proper fit.If not…OUCH!  For example, one that fits too tightly could be hard to remove and could cut off circulation in the penis entirely.  Metal rings can cause a rash or other skin reactions in some men, so this is something to consider when shopping around.  Adjustable cock rings made of rawhide or leather straps are easier for beginners to use since the fit can be changed, and taking them off is more manageable.  Avoid using cock ring substitutes; rubber bands, binder clips, and vices, for example, cause too much constriction.

Cock rings fit over the shaft and the testicles/scrotum when a man is not erect.  Ball by ball, the testicles go through, then the penis shaft dives in head first through the remaining ring space.  The ideal cock ring stays in place when the penis is soft, yet it can fairly easily slip off or unsnap when the penis is hard.  Lube can be added to make putting rings on and taking them off a little easier — something that works for finger and toe rings, too. These are great for men with ED issues.

O.k. now, for safety and pleasure, a cock ring needs to increase the size of the erection only slightly.  If you notice more pronounced swelling, then the fit is too tight.  In that case, take the cock ring off immediately.  It’s also vital for men to take off their cock ring at the first sign of pain or if the genitals feel cold.  In addition, it’s dangerous to leave a ring on for too long, including wearing one to sleep when spontaneous erections are all the rage.

WARNING….WARNING…WARNING!!!!!

An erection of several hours can cause blood coagulation in the penis, making it difficult to lose the erection.  This is called priapism, a prolonged erection.  Since new blood cannot enter the penis, this can be severely painful and cause permanent damage to the erectile tissue.  If this happens to you, seek medical attention as soon as possible, and don’t worry — the staff at the ER has seen this before.

Another place you might want to forgo a cock ring around your penis is the airport.

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VD….YOU…and whats real………. .

 

Vascular disease is a type of problem older males can experience. It is a type of erectile dysfunction so it can definitely affect their ability to have the quality of sexual lifestyle they are interested in. With vascular disease, the arteries end up hardening. This is going to prevent enough blood from being able to flow to the penis for it to get hard at all or to get hard enough for intercourse to take place. Approximately 60% of all men over the age of 60 who have a type of erectile dysfunction find that it is due to vascular disease. This is why men over the age of 55 are encouraged to get a screening annually. Most doctors will include it in the physical exam that they do. Yet too many males don’t see a doctor for a routine check up each year as they should. As a result, they end up with vascular disease being a problem that isn’t identified until it has already affected their ability to maintain an erection.

The research on the cases of vascular disease that have been found find some common factors. Males who smoke, have high cholesterol, or that are overweight tend to be at a higher risk. Males who have been diagnosed with diabetes or heart disease also have a higher chance of developing vascular disease as well. In order to determine if a man is suffering from vascular disease, an assessment is completed. Generally a blood test is done which can provide the necessary information. The penis may be touched as well to determine how sensitive the nerves are in it in connection with arousal. It is also very important for the patient to give accurate information. The assessment will ask when they last time a full erection was maintained. Many men lie about it as they don’t want to face the problem or share it with their doctor. Yet they are there to help with such issues and not being honest can prevent you from having a great sex life.

Once the vascular disease has been confirmed, the doctor can discuss the course or action to remedy it. Many men who need to make lifestyle changes such as to stop smoking or to lose weight will for sexual activity to take place. That is how important it is to them and the life they wish to engage in. Sometimes the physical issues of vascular disease have to be treated with emotional needs too. For the male who has been dealing with it for a while, the anxiety and shame of not being able to maintain an erection can be a factor. Even if the physical issues are resolved, the mental block is still going to be there. Dealing with both factors at once gives these men the best chance of overcoming their erectile dysfunction.

Depending on the assessment, the man may be given a prescription for various types of medications to help maintain an erection. Many of them have been quite successful and they continue to improve all the time. There are also vacuum devices given that will help to pull more blood into the penis so the erection can take place.Surgery is becoming more of a common way to treat vascular disease that has lead to erectile dysfunction as well. Many men want to go this route rather than having to use drugs or a pump to get their erections to take place. With surgery the arteries can be cleared so that the blood can naturally flow to the penis like it should. If there are veins that allow the blood to leak out they can be blocked. There are also implants that can be permanently inserted to assist a man with getting an erectionAn estimated 30 million men are affected by vascular disease right now. Finding out if you are at risk is important as it can help you to avoid being part of the statistics. Should you end up with vascular disease though there are very effective ways of treating it. Rather than giving up on sex, see a doctor who can help you find the right solution for you.

 

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There are 3 types of Dick’s in this world.

Sexual health is defined as the state of sexuality related to physical, emotional, mental and social well-being. Geez. Did I say that? O, and kids, sorry to be tardy to the party, but like I said last week moving is a big, stinky, bitch in tight panties.

A positive and respectful approach towards sexuality and sexual relationships is vital for attaining a sound sexual health.  Your feelings have a great impact on your sexual appetite. For example, if you are feeling anxious, bitter or angry towards your spouse you will not feel like having a sex with them. Or, if your boyfriend is a total ass and says jacked up crap and you wanna pop ’em in the chops. You may not wanna suck a dick.  Anywho.

A man’s  sexual health is of immense concern nowadays. You could be the most affectionate man in the world but if you are unable to satisfy your spouse in the bed it can lead to relationship issues. Sex is very important for a relationship to go smooth. Your inability to last in bed can turn your relationship bitter. Anxiety builds up in your mind making sex one of the most traumatic things in your life. If y’all a’int doing it ….you are done. Various psychological factors are also considered while discussing a mans sexual health. Men’s failure to achieve their goal in life can put them into a state of depression. Avoidance to sex becomes natural in such a situation.
Other topics relating to a mans sexual health are as follows:
•    Desire
•    Pleasure
•    Orgasm
•    Rapid or delayed ejaculation
•    Prostate health
•    Masturbation

A decrease in the production of testosterone in men makes them loose their desire in sex. Low sexual desire can also be the result of some chronic disease, hormonal imbalances, stress, fatigue or a poor body image.  Most of the men today suffer from erectile dysfunction.  And I  wonder about this? Could it be something in the water? Or, is it just b/c the baby boomers have had their last hoorah? So, ED is a sexual dysfunction that  can immobilize a man to develop an erection of the penis. Health problems such as high blood-pressure, cardiovascular disease, diabetes, high cholesterol or depression contribute to erectile dysfunction. Anybody can be affected by this illness at any stage of life, but more often it’s seen in men above the age of 40 years. BTW, I a podcast on prostate health.

Men usually hesitate to talk about their sexual health as it might hurt their ego.  They take it as a curse and begin living with it. Living under such a stress can lead to depression. If your husband feels the same, try taking to him. Make him feel comfortable and share his feelings with you.

A mans sexual health needs considerate assistance. Do not dither to talk about your sexual problems with your spouse, doctor, close friend, pastor, and G*D for that matter. Just talk. Please.

And please listen to Mperfect on sextalkradionetowork.com and when you are done there come on over to http://www.keeping-secrets.com for some H-O-T fun!!!

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Mr. Pickett seems harder and more stiff.

A cock ring is most often used to make an erect penis harder and bigger.  Cock rings work by constricting blood flow, keeping blood in the shaft of the penis. OUCH. Maybe?  When a wearer finally does ejaculate, the sensation is more intense, since it took a longer time to come, and because the penis is filled with additional blood. POW!!

Men use cock rings with partners and/or by themselves. Yes, by themselves.  Anyway, some are actual rings as their name suggests, made of metal or rubber.  Since these cock rings are not adjustable, the right size needs to be chosen for a proper fit.  For example, one that fits too tightly could be hard to remove and could cut off circulation in the penis entirely.  Metal rings can cause a rash or other skin reactions in some men, so this is something to consider when shopping around. Avoid using cock ring substitutes; rubber bands, binder clips, and vices, for example, cause too much constriction.

So, how do they work? Well, cock rings fit over the shaft and the testicles/scrotum when a man is not erect.  Ball by ball, the testicles go through, then the penis shaft dives in head first through the remaining ring space.  The ideal cock ring stays in place when the penis is soft, yet it can fairly easily slip off or unsnap when the penis is hard.  Lube can be added to make putting rings on and taking them off a little easier — something that works for finger and toe rings, too.

Any questions so far?

For safety and pleasure, a cock ring needs to increase the size of the erection only slightly.  If you notice more pronounced swelling, then the fit is too tight.  In that case, take the cock ring off immediately.  It’s also vital for men to take off their cock ring at the first sign of pain or if the genitals feel cold.  In addition, it’s dangerous to leave a ring on for too long, including wearing one to sleep when spontaneous erections are all the rage. If this happens to you, seek medical attention as soon as possible, and don’t worry — the staff at the ER has seen this before.  Really, trust me they have.

As always have fun, ask questions, and let Miss toy help you.

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O.K. let’s do this….. !

Everybody seems obsessed by different sex techniques, all that “how to” or “tips ”, but how about impulsiveness and spontaneity. Have we lost it? The sex essence, impulsive desire, passionate sex, when both of you are so horny and want it now. Seems like we forgot about the pleasure of a spontaneous quickie. Most of us prefer to bring books and magazines to our bedrooms and make it a kind of sex seminar instead of simply having pleasure and enjoying.
Let’s make this clear….  quickie doesn’t mean bad sex, or not quality sex. It’s just a variant of it and having sex in a forbidden place or situation may actually bring you closer to your partner and improve your relationship. It’s like sharing with your partner something nobody else can share and creating a tight intimate connection between the two of you. It’s like having a secret no one but you two will ever know.
The additional dose of adrenaline and the thought of being discovered while having quickie in a public place….well…AWESOME!  By the way, where was the last public place you sucked and fucked? The naughtiness of the situation will wind up both of you and lead to a very passionate and delicious sex, which actually can be much better than the common sexual intercourse you have in your beds.
I know the next question. What about the foreplay? The importance of which has been discussed and highlighted in hundreds of articles and books on sexology. Skip it, the adrenaline in your blood will compensate for any foreplay. Quickie sex is about experimenting. It’s a good chance to apply your sexual creativeness and sex fantasies in the real world. Picture your lover held against the wall, or bend over the stares with her breasts outside the bra, her panties around her knees, it can easily be an erotic fantasy.
So, what holds you back from having quickies? Some people think that by showing their partner that they want quick sex they offend them in some way. But in fact, if you’re horny and lusting for your partner, wanting quick sex will only assure your partner that you still want him/her.
The most amazing thing about a quickie is freedom. There is no right place or time for quickie. It’s only up to you and your imagination not any circumstances. Any circumstance doesn’t matter if you want it now, and if you want it badly. No doubt you will find both place and time, as there is variety to choose between. Look around how many options you have: office table, garden hedge, even toilet will do if you’re really desperate. Keep your feelings fresh and experiment with them. Enjoy, just try not to hurt the esthetic feelings of unwilling witnesses.

Miss Toy

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