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Your VAGINA, HIS penis and 3 important questions

 

Sorry, I’ve been sick.

I’m on the mend now. However, while I was down I had time to think of some stuff.

Here are some questions.

1. Is there such a thing as love at first-sight?

2. Do, soul mates matter?

3.  Does size matter? ( and I am talking about both sexes. men can sometimes be too big or small and so can women)

I’d love to read your responses.

I have four more questions but we will get to those at another time.

miss toy

 

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LOOK…there is an old pussy on the loose!

Kids, I wrote about this earlier, but I thought it deserved another glance.

There is often a belief in society that men enjoy sex much more than women.  (crazy!)  Women often worry about issues such as pregnancy, they have their hands full with too many things, or they aren’t happy with their body. Yet they continue to engage in sexual activities as a way to keep their partner happy.That called fucking without fun. Women are very good at doing what is going to keep others happy. It is often a part of their very giving nature.

Some people say that many women enjoy sex more as they get older. There are many researchers who will tell you it has to do with changes in the body. A woman may find it easier to have an orgasm when she is in her 30’s. She may have come to terms with how her body looks or be with the same partner long enough to be very comfortable communicating what it is that she wants.

This results in sex becoming something that a woman can enjoy and look forward to when she is older. It has more to do with intimacy than with just being sexy for someone. Since sex isn’t the core of the relationship when you are older and the pressure is off a woman to look perfect and to perform perfectly. This can help it to be something enjoyable instead of another time when she continues to critic herself.

Listen, most men won’t admit it, but they often focused on their own sexual needs when they were younger as well. Older men are known to be able to please a woman better. More women are opening up to tell others how much they enjoy sex as they mature. This used to be a taboo subject so it was just assumed that they didn’t really participate in it or enjoy it. Yet that seems to be very far from the truth.

Another BIG reason  more mature women find sex extremely gratifying. . .. ? It is exciting to have the freedom to explore their sexuality.  Yep, I said it freedom.

Maturity brings freedom.

miss toy

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What was infectious?

Now…now… .

Let’s be patient.

Miss Toy wants to ask a question.

What do UT I’s, yeast, and a speculum have in common?

Well, in order to find out come on back Sunday.

I will have some really interesting answers.

In the mean time go over to http://www.sextalkradionetwork.com and look up my show Mperfect.

Post some feedback and let me know what you think.

 

miss toy

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Once more with feeling’

Ever notice how men talk about ‘having sex’ while women talk about ‘making love?’ That kind of hits the nail on the head when it comes to how men and women approach sex.  Men are pretty direct when it comes to sex — they’re aroused easily, usually by visual stimulation, what they see.  Women are much more complex, and require a more complicated experience to become aroused and take longer.

While that sounds simple, (and it is!) if you are going to improve your sexual technique, you must keep it in mind constantly.

So lets talk about this ‘more complicated experience,’ and see what we can learn.
Women enjoy sex with more of their senses, touch, smell, taste, and hearing.

Lets look at a few of these in more detail:

1. Hearing.  Women love to hear romantic sensual things.  Notice that is sensual not sexual language.  Women love to hear you describe your feelings.  Men are more direct and want to hear things like, “you are so big.”  Women like to hear things like, “your skin is so soft.”

2. Touching.  Women love to be touched and stroked. Stroking, cuddling, and touching is all great stuff that arouses women.  Stroke her lightly with the tips of your fingers up and down her body, avoiding sexual areas.

3. Smelling. This could be scented candles or incense.  Women love smelling and being smelled.

4. Tasting. Women love to be fed all kinds of wonderful things like strawberries, sweets, and wine.

5. Sight.  While generally women are not turned on by sight, most women love to look into your eyes.  This kind of ultra-romantic stuff is a huge turn-on for most women.

6. Kissing.  Kissing is a kind of touching.

Remember when you were learning to drive?  One of the first things you learn is – don’t gun the engine while its cold!  Well sex is just like that!

miss toy

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Wanna see the one-eyed Optometrist ?!

This is different so bear w/me. Please. Ok, so enhancing your love life is something that every long-term relationship eventually requires and it can be done with erotic hypnosis easily and quickly. I said it was different. EH is a type of hypnosis used to affect another person’s sexual perceptions, and to enhance their sexual experiences.The  reduction in sexual inhibitions and increasing arousal are common goals of erotic hypnosis. The most common form of EH is subliminal cd’s, movies, images…etc. Many women use subliminal images or cd’s to increase breast size. Anyway, let’s face it,  sooner or later your love life will be affected by the regular stresses of everyday life and many other factors that may make your love life seem lacking. Often we hear that our partners are too tired to make love or perhaps there is a problem in the relationship that make love-making just a bit more difficult than it used to be. Rite? Who hasn’t been down that road? Erotic hypnosis can keep both of you stimulated, and it helps for you to be able to incorporate playfulness in the bedroom.

Learning how to become more spontaneous when it comes to erotic hypnosis can also help you to improve your love life. The reason for this is because it lets your mate know that you still find them sexy and attractive, which is the key to a great love life. Here are some more tips to making your love life better:

1.    Try to add some spice into your relationship by bringing toys to the bedroom with you. It can really make a huge difference.
2.    Role playing is a great way for you to be able to make your love life a great deal better. It is also a good way to explore fantasies.
3.   Use sexual talk in explicit yet stylish ways.
5.    Use erotic hypnosis to keep the excitement alive.
6.    Having sex in different areas other than the bedroom can spice up any relationship and add a sense of danger to it.
7.    Trying new and different positions can really make a difference in your love life.

There are just so many things that you can do to make your love life better. C’mon give it a try.

I recommend using erotic hypnosis,  or subliminal cd’s as it is a really powerful way to keep the passion alive in your love life.
If you are willing to explore new territories, like erotic hypnosis, it can lead you to a more fulfilling sex life with your partner.

Most of what is needed is an open mind. A good sex life is very important to any relationship and a willingness to do whatever you can to spice things up helps as well.

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