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What’s Your Sign??

Homosexual dating has become much more widespread and accepted in Western culture, allowing both gays and lesbians the chance to reach out to one another beyond that of closed doors. Now there are many ways you can have a rewarding homosexual dating experience, so don’t be afraid to get out there and explore all of the potential relationships you can create at a wonderful same-sex communities.

True love knows no boundaries, has no discrimination and only wishes to be shared with another who returns the same emotions.
Gay dating is about finding someone who feels the same way you do,  (same as straight folks), enjoys spending time with you, treats you with respect and makes you feel like an equal. It is about being apart of a relationship with mutual understanding, which has the potential to forge a strong connection between both you and your partner.
Like any dating experience, there will be certain setbacks and struggles that you may face during homosexual dating.

As a gay or lesbian, you should not feel that you need to grab any opportunity that comes your way ( that applies to straight too).  There is no harm in starting as friends and working slowly into the relationship to discover how much you have in common. As long as you are honest with your feelings, you should have no problem finding a partner.

In general dating is how you can establish an amazing connection with someone who understands you, and loves you for who you are with no questions asked. Even though you will meet some people who are destined to give you a hard time with your sexual preference, all you can do is trust your own judgments, be true to yourself, and give your love and time to those

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Mr. Pickett seems harder and more stiff.

A cock ring is most often used to make an erect penis harder and bigger.  Cock rings work by constricting blood flow, keeping blood in the shaft of the penis. OUCH. Maybe?  When a wearer finally does ejaculate, the sensation is more intense, since it took a longer time to come, and because the penis is filled with additional blood. POW!!

Men use cock rings with partners and/or by themselves. Yes, by themselves.  Anyway, some are actual rings as their name suggests, made of metal or rubber.  Since these cock rings are not adjustable, the right size needs to be chosen for a proper fit.  For example, one that fits too tightly could be hard to remove and could cut off circulation in the penis entirely.  Metal rings can cause a rash or other skin reactions in some men, so this is something to consider when shopping around. Avoid using cock ring substitutes; rubber bands, binder clips, and vices, for example, cause too much constriction.

So, how do they work? Well, cock rings fit over the shaft and the testicles/scrotum when a man is not erect.  Ball by ball, the testicles go through, then the penis shaft dives in head first through the remaining ring space.  The ideal cock ring stays in place when the penis is soft, yet it can fairly easily slip off or unsnap when the penis is hard.  Lube can be added to make putting rings on and taking them off a little easier — something that works for finger and toe rings, too.

Any questions so far?

For safety and pleasure, a cock ring needs to increase the size of the erection only slightly.  If you notice more pronounced swelling, then the fit is too tight.  In that case, take the cock ring off immediately.  It’s also vital for men to take off their cock ring at the first sign of pain or if the genitals feel cold.  In addition, it’s dangerous to leave a ring on for too long, including wearing one to sleep when spontaneous erections are all the rage. If this happens to you, seek medical attention as soon as possible, and don’t worry — the staff at the ER has seen this before.  Really, trust me they have.

As always have fun, ask questions, and let Miss toy help you.

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How important is gettin it on??

Sex is an important part of your life and your relationship.  (Doh!)

It’s essential that you enjoy it. The conditioning of your body to be sexual and reproduce is the strongest on the planet. It is the second strongest instinct on the planet next to that of survival. However, sexual desire can change over time, and can increase or decrease depending on life’s situations.

Do you worry about what is “normal” or “abnormal” sexual activity? Wonder why or what causes the change in your sex drive?  In response to outside forces such as stress and emotional experiences, sexual desires often change.

Here are 5 tips to re-sexualize ( i made that up) your self and improve your sex live:

One. Your Body is an Energetic Snapshots of Your Past Love
Encounters

Have you noticed that when involved in certain intimate relationships, your self-esteem either rises or declines?  This is largely because you energetically perceive the thoughts that the significant other has of you. These thoughts are  totally unrelated to who you really are, but you begin to resonate with that energy already in your energetic field.

Two. Create Room for Increased Sexual Expression

Is guilt within you about sex? Is sex an important part of your life? Does work or other activities overcrowd your schedule so that you don’t have time to express loving sexuality? Send an intentional energetic message into your world that you plan to break this pattern.  As you begin to release the energetic charge from past mistakes, healing and changes can occur.  I promise!

Three. You Are Born With Sex Appeal

Sexual energy is the life force energy within you. It is at the very core of your energy bodies and the way it operates.

Four. Energetically Release Conflict, Anger and Negative
Feelings

I think this is the hardest to do. Unresolved conflict or unexpressed anger can definitely put a damper on desire, as can negative feelings, secrets or emotional upset. As you carry around negative feelings about your partner, your level of attraction for that person can wane dramatically, sometimes never to return.

Five.  Releasing Foreign Energy Time-Line Visualization ( i know, i know…hippie talk)

These thoughts and negativity  affect you now and you can begin to release it by using the a time-line visualization technique.
1.    Imagine a time line in front of you a time line from birth to your current age.
2.    Create a mark for every year of your life on the time line.
3.    Allow a dark spot to appear on the time line for every negative experience or for other peoples’ thoughts you collected  and absorbed
4.    Create an absorbing rose or other symbol at the beginning of the time line.
5.    Slide this absorbing symbol along the time line allowing it to pull out all the dark spots of memories, negative experiences and foreign energy from each year on the time line. Let the symbol get bigger and bigger as it absorbs all the dark spots on the time line.
6.   When you’ve absorbed all the spots on the time line and the symbol reaches the end – move the symbol out in front of you and let it explode like fireworks.
7.    Imagine a golden sun above your head filled with your own vital energy.
8.    Replenish your energy by bringing the golden sun into your body and space. Energetically release conflict, anger and negative feelings to clear the path to renewed intimacy with yourself and your partner

I wanna hear your thoughts.

leave me a comment.

Miss Toy

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1, 2, 3, FIRE!!!

Now, this does not speak for ALL women or men. But, as women, we are usually at a loss as to how to touch a man’s penis in a way that is wonderfully pleasuring to him. Sometimes, men want us to bring them to orgasm manually, BUT there are some of you who are clueless as to how to do this. How tightly do ya’ hold his dick? How far up and down his Johnson do we move our hands? And the list goes on…. .

Listen, getting a man to experience orgasm as we touch him is sometimes a lengthy process. You can feel so clumsy about it, and we often ARE clumsy about it. For instance your hand or arm getting tired before he cums… .  So, then in frustration he moves our hand aside and does it himself.

Now bear in mind, that every man does himself differently. They all have techniques that feel best to them. So you may have to experiment, ask questions (in a sexy tone) and watch how he does it himself. Ok. So, before I say this next thing,  I know some of you are gonna cringe, but try offering to let him cum in your mouth as  inducement. Remember that as they get closer to cumming, they often change techniques. Watch for that. Please don’t  ask questions when he is close to cumming. Gently playing with his balls as you watch is a great way to help out.

So, if you can get your man to show you how HE does it, you are miles ahead! But if you can’t try these tips out.

1) Place your body where you can rest your wrist on his hip or tummy and still be able to move your hand an inch and a half or two inches by flexing your wrist back and forth. This will help with your fatigue factor.

2) Wrap your first finger and thumb around his dick two inches below his glans. Now you will move your hand from that location up to just below his crown, but not over his crown. That is your stroking range.

3) Stroke SLOW. Don’t wear yourself out by doing it fast. Nice slow movements up and down his shaft are the key

4) Breathe in his ear, and whisper sexual fantasies to him if you want to shorten the process.

5) How tightly do you grip? Not very tight at all.

6) When he is beginning to stiffen throughout his body, and breathing harder, DON”T speed up.  Just wait, make him suffer as his body begins to beg for release. When his penis begins to swell slightly, and his balls begin to pulse, put your head in his lap and tell him out-loud to cum in your mouth. Then put your lips around his cock and enjoy his gift to you. You will feel his gratitude, you will see it in his eyes, you will experience it the next day, ALL day.

There are toys that can help with this.

Your guy may enjoy a natural cock sucker,  oils, or watching a dvd while jackin that dick.

Remember talk, talk…talk. Miss Toy

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Opinions are like assholes…..some you like..some you wanna rip apart.

The anus is a sensual erogenous zone. It’s directly connected with the nervous system that conveys the feeling of sexual pleasure to the mind and evokes a physical response. Sexual excitement can turn palms red, wet the vagina, and rhythmically contract anal muscles( that means cumin’).  For heterosexual couples if during anal coitus, the  clitoris, vagina,or penis aren’t stimulated…. . They can get sensual pleasure from voluptuous anal manipulations.  And for homosexual couples if during anal coitus the vagina or penis aren’t stimulated…. . They can get the same  oooo lala from butt play.

Anal sex toys vary greatly.

The whole range of these devices suit both men, and women to the same extent. There are toys for self-stimulation and for games between partners.

Anal sex toys, can be easily distinguished because of their wide base or handle crosscut valve. The reason for this is to avoid unwanted penetration of separate parts or the whole device into the anus. YIKES! You see, our bowels are very long and the rectum isn’t straight at all (key point there so pay attention) but has some curves in the sacral bone and perineum. Consequently, objects can easily fall inside. PLUCK!

Should this happen, immediately visit your doctor and frankly tell about your “loss” whether you want it or not. The doctor will never cast distrustful and astonished glances at a patient. He or she knows that such things happen and even more often than we can imagine. Surgeons extract all manner of things from people’s bowels like  dildos made of thick rubber, spray cans, coca-cola cans, champagne bottles, radio valves, candles, newspapers, ping-pong balls, spade handles, table legs and Hoover attachments. The exquisite refinement of sex has no limits.

Moreover, erotic anal games should not obligatory end with coitus. Anus tongue or finger stimulation will also bring your partner much pleasure.

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