Monthly Archives: August 2012

Don’t Just Spray It!!

 

Once a man has reached the point in his sexual development where he begins to understand that just “getting off” isn’t satisfying him or his partner, he craves for more.

And in his heart he knows there is more, but often doesn’t know how to achieve these higher pleasures. Tantra teaches us that for a man to achieve the highest ecstasy possible for himself and his lover, he first needs to learn ejaculation control and to direct his sexual energy up his spine to the higher centers of his brain. In Tantra  this sexual energy is known as “kundalini” energy.
When a man masters the ability to move his kundalini energy up along his spine, he increases the pleasure for himself and his lover to levels that he might never have dreamed of.

As a man learns to master the movement his sexual energy within his body, he will be able to control his ejaculation. At this point he is free to make love “without” feeling the pressure to ejaculate. A man’s sensitivity and awareness is profoundly heightened to the subtle and refined pleasures of lovemaking. He steps into an expanded state of consciousness, which allows him to achieve “multiple” (yes, men can have ’em too) and “full-body orgasms”. The benefits of “full-body” orgasm are many. Full-body orgasm frees him from stress and tensions, heals his prostate gland, opens his heart and connects him deeper to his lover and himself. It also facilitates the man in experiencing multiple orgasms. By “multiple” is not to imply “multiple ejaculations”, but rather that once a man learns to move his kundalini energy through his body he can have orgasms and not ejaculate. This is known as a “dry orgasm” or none-ejaculatory orgasm.  Men who have had their prostate removed have dry orgasm.
Men have a tremendous capacity for pleasure and orgasm that is virtually untouched for most men. As a man masters tantra practice and higher energy movement, he begins to view his penis as an instrument of a deeper love connection with the woman. This deeper connection facilitates moving the woman to the highest states of ecstasy and orgasmic pleasure that she can achieve. Allowing the man and woman to continue to build higher levels of ecstasy together.

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LOOK!!! She has a big pussy and likes to touch it.

Ever notice how men talk about ‘having sex’ while women talk about ‘making love?’ That kind of hits the nail on the head when it comes to how men and women approach sex.  Men are pretty direct when it comes to sex — they’re easily,  aroused.  Women are much more complex, (BING!) and require a more complicated experience to become aroused.

While that sounds simple, (and it is!) if you are going to improve your sexual technique, you must keep it in mind constantly.

So let’s have a look at this ‘more complicated experience,’ and see what we can learn.
Women enjoy sex with more of their senses, touch, smell, taste, and hearing.  Notice that I did NOT say sight.  Women get aroused by sight as well as the other senses, but this is secondary.  But who does like looking at a tight ass??

Women love things like ‘taking your time’, ‘anticipation’, and ‘foreplay’ because they make the experience richer and involve more senses.

Lets look at a few of these in more detail:

1. Hearing.  Women love to hear romantic sensual things.  Notice that is sensual not sexual language.  Women love to hear you describe your feelings.  Men are more direct and want to hear things like, “you are so big.”  Women like to hear things like, “your skin is so soft.”

2. Touching.  Women love touching and stroked. Stroking, cuddling, and touching is all great stuff that arouses women.  Stroke her lightly with the tips of your fingers up and down her body, avoiding sexual areas.  There will be lots of time for that later!  Build up tension and anticipation.

3. Smelling. This could be scented candles or incense.  Women love smelling and being smelled.

4. Tasting. Women love getting fed all kinds of wonderful things like strawberries, sweets, wine and for some women jizz.

5. Sight.  While generally women are not turned on by sight, most women love to look into your eyes.  This kind of ultra-romantic stuff is a huge turn-on for most women.

6. Kissing.   This is my fav. .Kissing is a kind of touching.  Our lips have tons of nerve endings in them which is why contact with our lips feels good.  Make kissing an experience instead of jumping right in with your tongue! and if you cant…baby…please learn how.  Lightly brush her lips with yours and then pull away.  Keep doing this ‘brushing’ contact, and you will excite the nerve ending on both of your lips.  Play with your lips lightly and gently.

Remember when you were learning to drive?  One of the first things you learn is – don’t gun the engine while its cold!  Well sex is just like that!

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There are 3 types of Dick’s in this world.

Sexual health is defined as the state of sexuality related to physical, emotional, mental and social well-being. Geez. Did I say that? O, and kids, sorry to be tardy to the party, but like I said last week moving is a big, stinky, bitch in tight panties.

A positive and respectful approach towards sexuality and sexual relationships is vital for attaining a sound sexual health.  Your feelings have a great impact on your sexual appetite. For example, if you are feeling anxious, bitter or angry towards your spouse you will not feel like having a sex with them. Or, if your boyfriend is a total ass and says jacked up crap and you wanna pop ’em in the chops. You may not wanna suck a dick.  Anywho.

A man’s  sexual health is of immense concern nowadays. You could be the most affectionate man in the world but if you are unable to satisfy your spouse in the bed it can lead to relationship issues. Sex is very important for a relationship to go smooth. Your inability to last in bed can turn your relationship bitter. Anxiety builds up in your mind making sex one of the most traumatic things in your life. If y’all a’int doing it ….you are done. Various psychological factors are also considered while discussing a mans sexual health. Men’s failure to achieve their goal in life can put them into a state of depression. Avoidance to sex becomes natural in such a situation.
Other topics relating to a mans sexual health are as follows:
•    Desire
•    Pleasure
•    Orgasm
•    Rapid or delayed ejaculation
•    Prostate health
•    Masturbation

A decrease in the production of testosterone in men makes them loose their desire in sex. Low sexual desire can also be the result of some chronic disease, hormonal imbalances, stress, fatigue or a poor body image.  Most of the men today suffer from erectile dysfunction.  And I  wonder about this? Could it be something in the water? Or, is it just b/c the baby boomers have had their last hoorah? So, ED is a sexual dysfunction that  can immobilize a man to develop an erection of the penis. Health problems such as high blood-pressure, cardiovascular disease, diabetes, high cholesterol or depression contribute to erectile dysfunction. Anybody can be affected by this illness at any stage of life, but more often it’s seen in men above the age of 40 years. BTW, I a podcast on prostate health.

Men usually hesitate to talk about their sexual health as it might hurt their ego.  They take it as a curse and begin living with it. Living under such a stress can lead to depression. If your husband feels the same, try taking to him. Make him feel comfortable and share his feelings with you.

A mans sexual health needs considerate assistance. Do not dither to talk about your sexual problems with your spouse, doctor, close friend, pastor, and G*D for that matter. Just talk. Please.

And please listen to Mperfect on sextalkradionetowork.com and when you are done there come on over to http://www.keeping-secrets.com for some H-O-T fun!!!

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MALE virgins & MOVING are both tough to deal with

Kids:

 

sorry for not posting this week.

miss toy has been moving and let me tell ya’… .

this a fresh kinda hell i never expected.

anyway, kids, i will be back next week.

i’m thinking of writing about cervical cancer, male virgins, or funky spunk…. .

let me know if y’all have any ideas for me.

dang it…the mover just dropped the sofa!! miss toy

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