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Once more with feeling’

Ever notice how men talk about ‘having sex’ while women talk about ‘making love?’ That kind of hits the nail on the head when it comes to how men and women approach sex.  Men are pretty direct when it comes to sex — they’re aroused easily, usually by visual stimulation, what they see.  Women are much more complex, and require a more complicated experience to become aroused and take longer.

While that sounds simple, (and it is!) if you are going to improve your sexual technique, you must keep it in mind constantly.

So lets talk about this ‘more complicated experience,’ and see what we can learn.
Women enjoy sex with more of their senses, touch, smell, taste, and hearing.

Lets look at a few of these in more detail:

1. Hearing.  Women love to hear romantic sensual things.  Notice that is sensual not sexual language.  Women love to hear you describe your feelings.  Men are more direct and want to hear things like, “you are so big.”  Women like to hear things like, “your skin is so soft.”

2. Touching.  Women love to be touched and stroked. Stroking, cuddling, and touching is all great stuff that arouses women.  Stroke her lightly with the tips of your fingers up and down her body, avoiding sexual areas.

3. Smelling. This could be scented candles or incense.  Women love smelling and being smelled.

4. Tasting. Women love to be fed all kinds of wonderful things like strawberries, sweets, and wine.

5. Sight.  While generally women are not turned on by sight, most women love to look into your eyes.  This kind of ultra-romantic stuff is a huge turn-on for most women.

6. Kissing.  Kissing is a kind of touching.

Remember when you were learning to drive?  One of the first things you learn is – don’t gun the engine while its cold!  Well sex is just like that!

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What’s Your Sign??

Homosexual dating has become much more widespread and accepted in Western culture, allowing both gays and lesbians the chance to reach out to one another beyond that of closed doors. Now there are many ways you can have a rewarding homosexual dating experience, so don’t be afraid to get out there and explore all of the potential relationships you can create at a wonderful same-sex communities.

True love knows no boundaries, has no discrimination and only wishes to be shared with another who returns the same emotions.
Gay dating is about finding someone who feels the same way you do,  (same as straight folks), enjoys spending time with you, treats you with respect and makes you feel like an equal. It is about being apart of a relationship with mutual understanding, which has the potential to forge a strong connection between both you and your partner.
Like any dating experience, there will be certain setbacks and struggles that you may face during homosexual dating.

As a gay or lesbian, you should not feel that you need to grab any opportunity that comes your way ( that applies to straight too).  There is no harm in starting as friends and working slowly into the relationship to discover how much you have in common. As long as you are honest with your feelings, you should have no problem finding a partner.

In general dating is how you can establish an amazing connection with someone who understands you, and loves you for who you are with no questions asked. Even though you will meet some people who are destined to give you a hard time with your sexual preference, all you can do is trust your own judgments, be true to yourself, and give your love and time to those

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LOOK!!! She has a big pussy and likes to touch it.

Ever notice how men talk about ‘having sex’ while women talk about ‘making love?’ That kind of hits the nail on the head when it comes to how men and women approach sex.  Men are pretty direct when it comes to sex — they’re easily,  aroused.  Women are much more complex, (BING!) and require a more complicated experience to become aroused.

While that sounds simple, (and it is!) if you are going to improve your sexual technique, you must keep it in mind constantly.

So let’s have a look at this ‘more complicated experience,’ and see what we can learn.
Women enjoy sex with more of their senses, touch, smell, taste, and hearing.  Notice that I did NOT say sight.  Women get aroused by sight as well as the other senses, but this is secondary.  But who does like looking at a tight ass??

Women love things like ‘taking your time’, ‘anticipation’, and ‘foreplay’ because they make the experience richer and involve more senses.

Lets look at a few of these in more detail:

1. Hearing.  Women love to hear romantic sensual things.  Notice that is sensual not sexual language.  Women love to hear you describe your feelings.  Men are more direct and want to hear things like, “you are so big.”  Women like to hear things like, “your skin is so soft.”

2. Touching.  Women love touching and stroked. Stroking, cuddling, and touching is all great stuff that arouses women.  Stroke her lightly with the tips of your fingers up and down her body, avoiding sexual areas.  There will be lots of time for that later!  Build up tension and anticipation.

3. Smelling. This could be scented candles or incense.  Women love smelling and being smelled.

4. Tasting. Women love getting fed all kinds of wonderful things like strawberries, sweets, wine and for some women jizz.

5. Sight.  While generally women are not turned on by sight, most women love to look into your eyes.  This kind of ultra-romantic stuff is a huge turn-on for most women.

6. Kissing.   This is my fav. .Kissing is a kind of touching.  Our lips have tons of nerve endings in them which is why contact with our lips feels good.  Make kissing an experience instead of jumping right in with your tongue! and if you cant…baby…please learn how.  Lightly brush her lips with yours and then pull away.  Keep doing this ‘brushing’ contact, and you will excite the nerve ending on both of your lips.  Play with your lips lightly and gently.

Remember when you were learning to drive?  One of the first things you learn is – don’t gun the engine while its cold!  Well sex is just like that!

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There are 3 types of Dick’s in this world.

Sexual health is defined as the state of sexuality related to physical, emotional, mental and social well-being. Geez. Did I say that? O, and kids, sorry to be tardy to the party, but like I said last week moving is a big, stinky, bitch in tight panties.

A positive and respectful approach towards sexuality and sexual relationships is vital for attaining a sound sexual health.  Your feelings have a great impact on your sexual appetite. For example, if you are feeling anxious, bitter or angry towards your spouse you will not feel like having a sex with them. Or, if your boyfriend is a total ass and says jacked up crap and you wanna pop ’em in the chops. You may not wanna suck a dick.  Anywho.

A man’s  sexual health is of immense concern nowadays. You could be the most affectionate man in the world but if you are unable to satisfy your spouse in the bed it can lead to relationship issues. Sex is very important for a relationship to go smooth. Your inability to last in bed can turn your relationship bitter. Anxiety builds up in your mind making sex one of the most traumatic things in your life. If y’all a’int doing it ….you are done. Various psychological factors are also considered while discussing a mans sexual health. Men’s failure to achieve their goal in life can put them into a state of depression. Avoidance to sex becomes natural in such a situation.
Other topics relating to a mans sexual health are as follows:
•    Desire
•    Pleasure
•    Orgasm
•    Rapid or delayed ejaculation
•    Prostate health
•    Masturbation

A decrease in the production of testosterone in men makes them loose their desire in sex. Low sexual desire can also be the result of some chronic disease, hormonal imbalances, stress, fatigue or a poor body image.  Most of the men today suffer from erectile dysfunction.  And I  wonder about this? Could it be something in the water? Or, is it just b/c the baby boomers have had their last hoorah? So, ED is a sexual dysfunction that  can immobilize a man to develop an erection of the penis. Health problems such as high blood-pressure, cardiovascular disease, diabetes, high cholesterol or depression contribute to erectile dysfunction. Anybody can be affected by this illness at any stage of life, but more often it’s seen in men above the age of 40 years. BTW, I a podcast on prostate health.

Men usually hesitate to talk about their sexual health as it might hurt their ego.  They take it as a curse and begin living with it. Living under such a stress can lead to depression. If your husband feels the same, try taking to him. Make him feel comfortable and share his feelings with you.

A mans sexual health needs considerate assistance. Do not dither to talk about your sexual problems with your spouse, doctor, close friend, pastor, and G*D for that matter. Just talk. Please.

And please listen to Mperfect on sextalkradionetowork.com and when you are done there come on over to http://www.keeping-secrets.com for some H-O-T fun!!!

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You gotta do….what you gotta change

Despite the sexual revolution in the 1960s, the fact is, many Americans still feel that sex is a taboo. Each person has different sexual preferences and though there are those who are very vocal about their needs in bed…. . There still are others who opt to keep silent for fear of being called vulgar.

Things have changed. Children can now access sites featuring couples having live sex, or a live sex show with hot models as stars. Listen teenagers nowadays are no longer as innocent as we want them to be, and despite the many precautions parents take to prevent their children from sexy webcam chat rooms and club live sex, it just isn’t enough. Children still need to be educated by their parents. They need to know that they are not the only one experiencing things such as arousal or even masturbation. Children are confused and for them to be properly guided towards their societal roles, parents still has the biggest part of it.

Some people blame teenage pregnancy to the proliferation of sex-related media and easy access to porn sites. It is true that several studies have found a relationship between early sexual experimentation and sexual innuendos in TVs and movies. But hey, you can’t blame everything to media. True, the media is cluttered with so much sex-related content but still, you are responsible for your kids.

They are your kids. Right??

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