NO…no…no it’s C-O-C-K -cock- not J-O-C-K

A cock ring is most often used to make an erect penis harder and bigger, to keep it that way for a longer amount of time, and to delay and heighten orgasm.  Cock rings work by constricting blood flow, keeping blood in the shaft of the penis.  When a wearer finally does ejaculate, the sensation is more intense, since it took a longer time to come, and because the penis is filled with additional blood.

Men use cock rings with partners and/or by themselves.  Some are actual rings as their name suggests, made of metal or rubber.  Since these cock rings are not adjustable, the right size needs to be chosen for a proper fit.If not…OUCH!  For example, one that fits too tightly could be hard to remove and could cut off circulation in the penis entirely.  Metal rings can cause a rash or other skin reactions in some men, so this is something to consider when shopping around.  Adjustable cock rings made of rawhide or leather straps are easier for beginners to use since the fit can be changed, and taking them off is more manageable.  Avoid using cock ring substitutes; rubber bands, binder clips, and vices, for example, cause too much constriction.

Cock rings fit over the shaft and the testicles/scrotum when a man is not erect.  Ball by ball, the testicles go through, then the penis shaft dives in head first through the remaining ring space.  The ideal cock ring stays in place when the penis is soft, yet it can fairly easily slip off or unsnap when the penis is hard.  Lube can be added to make putting rings on and taking them off a little easier — something that works for finger and toe rings, too. These are great for men with ED issues.

O.k. now, for safety and pleasure, a cock ring needs to increase the size of the erection only slightly.  If you notice more pronounced swelling, then the fit is too tight.  In that case, take the cock ring off immediately.  It’s also vital for men to take off their cock ring at the first sign of pain or if the genitals feel cold.  In addition, it’s dangerous to leave a ring on for too long, including wearing one to sleep when spontaneous erections are all the rage.

WARNING….WARNING…WARNING!!!!!

An erection of several hours can cause blood coagulation in the penis, making it difficult to lose the erection.  This is called priapism, a prolonged erection.  Since new blood cannot enter the penis, this can be severely painful and cause permanent damage to the erectile tissue.  If this happens to you, seek medical attention as soon as possible, and don’t worry — the staff at the ER has seen this before.

Another place you might want to forgo a cock ring around your penis is the airport.

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Huff and Puff and your Dick is down.

There are several definitions but most frequently ED is referred to as the inability to achieve or maintain an erection long enough to complete intercourse. A soft dick.
Also called sexual dysfunction, erectile dysfunction (ED) is known as one of the more common forms of medical conditions that can affect men’s sexual performance. An astonishing fact: estimates show between 15 and 30 million Americans currently suffer from some form of erection problems.

A number of different things can cause these kinds of erection problems, but the most common include excessive stress, recreational or prescription drug use, liver disease (usually form alcoholism), or even from a penile implant that isn’t working properly. Most of the causes are in fact physical rather than psychological to begin with, but some estimates show up to 70% have a psychological component as well – erection problems can be crushing to a man’s self-image.

Here we’ll show you some of the risk factors involved with this problem, how the condition is diagnosed, and how the many men master the problem – the solutions that work.

Common Causes:

For most men, impotence comes from one of a number of fairly common sources.

Often times it is common medicines (typically those for blood pressure, antidepressants, and appetite suppressants) may cause ED as a side effect.

There are also potential psychological effects that can come from stress, guilt, anxiety, fear, depression, fear of sexual failure, and low self-esteem. These influences can account for as much as 20 % of cases on their own, but are also usually contributors to the other 80% of cases. It is safe to say that once a man begins to have problems, his fears and concerns usually add to the problem.

It’s a well known fact that excessive alcohol use and smoking also cause cardiovascular problems that can lead to lowered testosterone and ED.
Any time there is an injury to the spine or pelvis (or cancer surgery on the prostate or bladder) there can be damage to the nerves near the penis that may lead to problems with erections in the future. Damaged nerves and tissues (smooth muscles, arteries, etc.) are the most common source of problems. Diabetes, kidney disease, excessive alcohol use, and conditions like multiple sclerosis and atherosclerosis account for the majority of cases of impotence. Up to 50% of men with diabetes experience sexual problems at some point.

Although aging is associated with erection problems, it is not ‘just a part of getting older’. It is caused by other health issues that affect greater numbers of older men, but it doesn’t happen in the absence of other problems.

How is ED diagnosed?
Diagnosis is usually done by a physician using several of the followingsources of information:

Medical history – Any evidence of illnesses or even a recollection of sexual activity can help a physician determine where the problem is coming from.
cause of difficulties with the erection.

Physical exam – (ouch) Pain in the penis may suggest a nerve issue, where hormonal problems may show up as increased male breast size or abnormal hair growth. Circulatory problems may show up as decreased pulse in the wrists and / or ankles. Peyronie’s disease may cause impotence by causing the penis to bend to the point of making it difficult to maintain an erection.

Psychological exam – Interviews and questionnaires can reveal the mental aspects that may be contributing to the problem. A man’s partner may also be helpful in explaining what the problems might be in this area.

How is ED treated?

Luckily for most men ED is a curable condition. A number of different treatments are available that can make a real difference, even completely reversing the effects. These include
Physicians typically suggest treatments starting with the least invasive, moving up to higher risk options only after all the low risk options have been attempted.

If, for example, you suspect that the heart medication you are taking is the problem, telling your doctor may result in his trying a different class of medicine or altering the dosage. Some patients may be suited to have psychotherapy or behaviour modifications. Others may try using herbal medicines next, as they don’t typically conflict with other medications, and have a high rate of effectiveness.

Oral drugs (like Viagra) are often considered next, followed by locally injected drugs. Vacuum devices are often the next step, followed by surgery as a last resort after all other methods have been tried. The dangers involved with surgery make it a last resort.

A viable option (and highly successful in many cases) is treatment with herbal combinations. I am a BIF fan of this route.  In clinical testing, several herbal ingredients have been proven highly effective against mild to moderate cases of ED, with clinical results showing as much as 90% effectiveness in treating erection problems.

VD….YOU…and whats real………. .

 

Vascular disease is a type of problem older males can experience. It is a type of erectile dysfunction so it can definitely affect their ability to have the quality of sexual lifestyle they are interested in. With vascular disease, the arteries end up hardening. This is going to prevent enough blood from being able to flow to the penis for it to get hard at all or to get hard enough for intercourse to take place. Approximately 60% of all men over the age of 60 who have a type of erectile dysfunction find that it is due to vascular disease. This is why men over the age of 55 are encouraged to get a screening annually. Most doctors will include it in the physical exam that they do. Yet too many males don’t see a doctor for a routine check up each year as they should. As a result, they end up with vascular disease being a problem that isn’t identified until it has already affected their ability to maintain an erection.

The research on the cases of vascular disease that have been found find some common factors. Males who smoke, have high cholesterol, or that are overweight tend to be at a higher risk. Males who have been diagnosed with diabetes or heart disease also have a higher chance of developing vascular disease as well. In order to determine if a man is suffering from vascular disease, an assessment is completed. Generally a blood test is done which can provide the necessary information. The penis may be touched as well to determine how sensitive the nerves are in it in connection with arousal. It is also very important for the patient to give accurate information. The assessment will ask when they last time a full erection was maintained. Many men lie about it as they don’t want to face the problem or share it with their doctor. Yet they are there to help with such issues and not being honest can prevent you from having a great sex life.

Once the vascular disease has been confirmed, the doctor can discuss the course or action to remedy it. Many men who need to make lifestyle changes such as to stop smoking or to lose weight will for sexual activity to take place. That is how important it is to them and the life they wish to engage in. Sometimes the physical issues of vascular disease have to be treated with emotional needs too. For the male who has been dealing with it for a while, the anxiety and shame of not being able to maintain an erection can be a factor. Even if the physical issues are resolved, the mental block is still going to be there. Dealing with both factors at once gives these men the best chance of overcoming their erectile dysfunction.

Depending on the assessment, the man may be given a prescription for various types of medications to help maintain an erection. Many of them have been quite successful and they continue to improve all the time. There are also vacuum devices given that will help to pull more blood into the penis so the erection can take place.Surgery is becoming more of a common way to treat vascular disease that has lead to erectile dysfunction as well. Many men want to go this route rather than having to use drugs or a pump to get their erections to take place. With surgery the arteries can be cleared so that the blood can naturally flow to the penis like it should. If there are veins that allow the blood to leak out they can be blocked. There are also implants that can be permanently inserted to assist a man with getting an erectionAn estimated 30 million men are affected by vascular disease right now. Finding out if you are at risk is important as it can help you to avoid being part of the statistics. Should you end up with vascular disease though there are very effective ways of treating it. Rather than giving up on sex, see a doctor who can help you find the right solution for you.

 

Dildo’s…just dildo’s

Human beings always look for new and innovative ways of doing things. It is their basic instinct. So when modern, adventurous women embraced dildos, it was not to be surprised. A dildo has improved the art of sex making in a big way. Women can use it for vaginal penetration to get the feel of the male sex organ.  In other words a dick. Though dildos can not completely substitute penis, they have their own advantages. A dildo when used during intercourse can speed up the sex arousal in females and help them achieve a perfect orgasm. Men can also be benefited by dildos. They can effectively deal with premature ejaculation and erectile dysfunction problems.

So, what is a dildo? Well, a dildo is  a sex tool having similarities with a penis in terms of appearance, thickness, shape and size. Recently, vibrators have entered the market to enhance the self-pleasure of women. So you like vibs? The only difference between a dildo and a vibrator is that the vibrator vibrates and a dildo doesn’t. Dildos are used for penetration, while vibrators are normally used to stimulate the clitoris. Vibrators can have different shapes. If the vibrator has the shape of a penis or rod, it can also be used as a dildo.

Getting an access to these sex toys is very easy now. Online adult shopping website like keeping-secrets.com has a large collection of sex toys like dildos, double penis dildo’s, g-spot vibrators,  and real penis vibrators . All these tools are offered at attractively lower prices. The site always gives prime importance to the privacy of its customers. You can choose your own delivery options as well as timing.

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LOOK…there is an old pussy on the loose!

Kids, I wrote about this earlier, but I thought it deserved another glance.

There is often a belief in society that men enjoy sex much more than women.  (crazy!)  Women often worry about issues such as pregnancy, they have their hands full with too many things, or they aren’t happy with their body. Yet they continue to engage in sexual activities as a way to keep their partner happy.That called fucking without fun. Women are very good at doing what is going to keep others happy. It is often a part of their very giving nature.

Some people say that many women enjoy sex more as they get older. There are many researchers who will tell you it has to do with changes in the body. A woman may find it easier to have an orgasm when she is in her 30’s. She may have come to terms with how her body looks or be with the same partner long enough to be very comfortable communicating what it is that she wants.

This results in sex becoming something that a woman can enjoy and look forward to when she is older. It has more to do with intimacy than with just being sexy for someone. Since sex isn’t the core of the relationship when you are older and the pressure is off a woman to look perfect and to perform perfectly. This can help it to be something enjoyable instead of another time when she continues to critic herself.

Listen, most men won’t admit it, but they often focused on their own sexual needs when they were younger as well. Older men are known to be able to please a woman better. More women are opening up to tell others how much they enjoy sex as they mature. This used to be a taboo subject so it was just assumed that they didn’t really participate in it or enjoy it. Yet that seems to be very far from the truth.

Another BIG reason  more mature women find sex extremely gratifying. . .. ? It is exciting to have the freedom to explore their sexuality.  Yep, I said it freedom.

Maturity brings freedom.

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