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LOOK…there is an old pussy on the loose!

Kids, I wrote about this earlier, but I thought it deserved another glance.

There is often a belief in society that men enjoy sex much more than women.  (crazy!)  Women often worry about issues such as pregnancy, they have their hands full with too many things, or they aren’t happy with their body. Yet they continue to engage in sexual activities as a way to keep their partner happy.That called fucking without fun. Women are very good at doing what is going to keep others happy. It is often a part of their very giving nature.

Some people say that many women enjoy sex more as they get older. There are many researchers who will tell you it has to do with changes in the body. A woman may find it easier to have an orgasm when she is in her 30’s. She may have come to terms with how her body looks or be with the same partner long enough to be very comfortable communicating what it is that she wants.

This results in sex becoming something that a woman can enjoy and look forward to when she is older. It has more to do with intimacy than with just being sexy for someone. Since sex isn’t the core of the relationship when you are older and the pressure is off a woman to look perfect and to perform perfectly. This can help it to be something enjoyable instead of another time when she continues to critic herself.

Listen, most men won’t admit it, but they often focused on their own sexual needs when they were younger as well. Older men are known to be able to please a woman better. More women are opening up to tell others how much they enjoy sex as they mature. This used to be a taboo subject so it was just assumed that they didn’t really participate in it or enjoy it. Yet that seems to be very far from the truth.

Another BIG reason  more mature women find sex extremely gratifying. . .. ? It is exciting to have the freedom to explore their sexuality.  Yep, I said it freedom.

Maturity brings freedom.

miss toy

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How important is gettin it on??

Sex is an important part of your life and your relationship.  (Doh!)

It’s essential that you enjoy it. The conditioning of your body to be sexual and reproduce is the strongest on the planet. It is the second strongest instinct on the planet next to that of survival. However, sexual desire can change over time, and can increase or decrease depending on life’s situations.

Do you worry about what is “normal” or “abnormal” sexual activity? Wonder why or what causes the change in your sex drive?  In response to outside forces such as stress and emotional experiences, sexual desires often change.

Here are 5 tips to re-sexualize ( i made that up) your self and improve your sex live:

One. Your Body is an Energetic Snapshots of Your Past Love
Encounters

Have you noticed that when involved in certain intimate relationships, your self-esteem either rises or declines?  This is largely because you energetically perceive the thoughts that the significant other has of you. These thoughts are  totally unrelated to who you really are, but you begin to resonate with that energy already in your energetic field.

Two. Create Room for Increased Sexual Expression

Is guilt within you about sex? Is sex an important part of your life? Does work or other activities overcrowd your schedule so that you don’t have time to express loving sexuality? Send an intentional energetic message into your world that you plan to break this pattern.  As you begin to release the energetic charge from past mistakes, healing and changes can occur.  I promise!

Three. You Are Born With Sex Appeal

Sexual energy is the life force energy within you. It is at the very core of your energy bodies and the way it operates.

Four. Energetically Release Conflict, Anger and Negative
Feelings

I think this is the hardest to do. Unresolved conflict or unexpressed anger can definitely put a damper on desire, as can negative feelings, secrets or emotional upset. As you carry around negative feelings about your partner, your level of attraction for that person can wane dramatically, sometimes never to return.

Five.  Releasing Foreign Energy Time-Line Visualization ( i know, i know…hippie talk)

These thoughts and negativity  affect you now and you can begin to release it by using the a time-line visualization technique.
1.    Imagine a time line in front of you a time line from birth to your current age.
2.    Create a mark for every year of your life on the time line.
3.    Allow a dark spot to appear on the time line for every negative experience or for other peoples’ thoughts you collected  and absorbed
4.    Create an absorbing rose or other symbol at the beginning of the time line.
5.    Slide this absorbing symbol along the time line allowing it to pull out all the dark spots of memories, negative experiences and foreign energy from each year on the time line. Let the symbol get bigger and bigger as it absorbs all the dark spots on the time line.
6.   When you’ve absorbed all the spots on the time line and the symbol reaches the end – move the symbol out in front of you and let it explode like fireworks.
7.    Imagine a golden sun above your head filled with your own vital energy.
8.    Replenish your energy by bringing the golden sun into your body and space. Energetically release conflict, anger and negative feelings to clear the path to renewed intimacy with yourself and your partner

I wanna hear your thoughts.

leave me a comment.

Miss Toy

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Arsenic, Ol’ Lace and a Boner

 

So, the generation gap is alive and well when it comes to many issues in our society. Sex is one of them and so the older generations are turning to the internet as the perfect place to freely talk about it. Their younger co-workers, friends, and certainly their own children don’t want to discuss it with them. GROSS!! Can you see asking your daddy “cockrings or anal beads?” These days more and more people are living healthier lifestyles until late in life. This means there is no reason why someone over the age of 50 can’t be face down ass up. It doesn’t matter if they have been with the same person for years or if they are newly on the market. FRESH-MEAT!

There is a great deal of information to be found online too about how sex is for those over 50. Really….. kids…. anyone at any age. Individuals who are experiencing low libido, E.D. or a variety of other problems that are sexual in nature can find out more about it. WHOOSH! That is why it is called the information supa-highway. People can get support because they know that they aren’t alone in what they are going though. A person can simply choose to read articles that are posted online. Search engines are a great way to be able to narrow down the topics searches on. You can collect the information you want from the privacy of your home without feeling self-conscious about it. This is also why Adult and Porn websites are booming.

Anyway, there are plenty of forums where other people can read your posts and respond to them (something I have been looking for here. Hint…hint). And you can do your part by reading what others need and responding. This is a great way to give back the support that has been given to you along your road to sexual happiness.

It seems that there are more and more individuals of all ages out there sharing their stories of having sex. Some of them are fun while others are full of questions. Does size matter? Does your girlfriend have a big pussy? Are wrinkles on the ball-sac sexy? You do need to make sure that you get reliable information though. Just because there is something written on the internet doesn’t make it true. DO I NEED TO REPEAT THAT?!

Still, what you do get from other people who have been through similar experiences can give you something to think about. Besides who doesn’t like to see a pic of a nice dick?

Oh, sorry kids Richard is calling….. .

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