Monthly Archives: April 2012

You gotta do….what you gotta change

Despite the sexual revolution in the 1960s, the fact is, many Americans still feel that sex is a taboo. Each person has different sexual preferences and though there are those who are very vocal about their needs in bed…. . There still are others who opt to keep silent for fear of being called vulgar.

Things have changed. Children can now access sites featuring couples having live sex, or a live sex show with hot models as stars. Listen teenagers nowadays are no longer as innocent as we want them to be, and despite the many precautions parents take to prevent their children from sexy webcam chat rooms and club live sex, it just isn’t enough. Children still need to be educated by their parents. They need to know that they are not the only one experiencing things such as arousal or even masturbation. Children are confused and for them to be properly guided towards their societal roles, parents still has the biggest part of it.

Some people blame teenage pregnancy to the proliferation of sex-related media and easy access to porn sites. It is true that several studies have found a relationship between early sexual experimentation and sexual innuendos in TVs and movies. But hey, you can’t blame everything to media. True, the media is cluttered with so much sex-related content but still, you are responsible for your kids.

They are your kids. Right??

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Gay or Agatha’s Mystery Dinner Theater?

Am I Gay? I guess this is a question a lot of young people will have asked themselves during their confusing adolescent years. Of course, there are the  lucky ones – the majority –  ( you know the popular kids). Those people for whom their sexuality has never been in any doubt. Not to be one of the majority…..not have the same appetite for the opposite sex does not immediately make anyone gay.

Faced with this feeling of being different, young men and women may react in many different ways. Only a few will cope with the situation easily. Some may become reclusive; some may turn to bullying others; some to drink and drugs. This act, and the feeling of a need to prove themselves to their family and friends, will often only exasperate the problem. It is a time when some may even come to consider suicide! (that’s a new kinda hell)

Puberty, arrives at different times for different people. There is nothing wrong about being a late developer – talk about late. I just discovered people actually get gray pubic hair-. And even once everything is found to be in working order, it is quite normal for the feelings and the desires that arrive around this time to be “strange”, to say the least! The sudden explosion of hormones the body has to try to make some sense out of can for some bring forth quite peculiar urges, fascinations, and attractions.  It could be a teacher; it may be a friend – it could be anyone.

Sexual orientation is not hereditary. It is what you are.

Being gay does come with some burdens that heterosexuals never have to face.   For instance, there is the gay scene – known by all to be notoriously promiscuous – and although it is representative of less than a quarter of all gay people it is what a gay person will always be seen as being a part of. Next there is the whole “coming out” saga. Should you come out to family and friends, at work,… knuckle up or shut-up?? And last  staying “in the closet”, it will not be without some implications.

We now come to the crunch question: How do I know if I am gay? Ouch! These sit-ups hurt. I suppose the simple answer is – you just know.  Gay, straight or bisexual, – you are you, and you are unique. Whatever sexuality you may be, no two people are ever exactly the same – not even identical twins. Be proud of who and what you are!

-miss toy

PS

Here is a crude question, what makes you “cum”?

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UP….up…and away

Hey there I just wanted to let everyone know the first show of Mperfect is finally up.

Here is the link.  http://sextalkradionetwork.com/show-details/mperfect/

Please take a listen and tell me what you think. (be kind)

Miss Toy

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The verDICK is in

Up until the last two or three decades, condoms have always been predominantly a masculine concern. Protecting the male person from unwanted pregnancies used to be the primary intention of putting on this device. Times change and condom usage is now viewed as the responsibility of both sexes and women have as much right and responsibility as any man to see to it that their partner puts on a condom for protection. Ever heard of herpes

With a lot of options and product lines out there, it is hard to understand why some people would still prefer to expose themselves to health risks rather than use condoms….. ?  Manufacturers have given a lot of thought and resources in meeting every possible demand of consumers out there, such as the production of thin condoms for those seeking to experience enhanced sensitivity. Now, for those seeking value-added features, like textured surfaces, flavors, scents, and colors, there are enough condom varieties to satisfy them all.  YUMMY!

And speaking of enhanced pleasure, www.keeping-secrets.com  has lubricants best suited for condoms. Now, when a man puts on a condom at his own initiative and without any prompting from his lover, he sends across a message of responsibility and caution.  BRAVO! Putting on a condom shows that you care! This is great especially if both of you are looking to build a healthy, loving relationship that would hopefully  for a long time. Needless to say, reckless behavior in sexual fulfillment without any thought on protection says much on the immature mentality of both participants. C’mon suit up.

So, to some degree, both partners are consenting to use this protective device are looking out for their own protection. It can also be a means of sharing. The use of condoms and other contraceptives lowers anxieties and reduces fears, (wait is that sweat on your brow) making the sexual experience more fulfilling and pleasurable. The practice safe sex does not lower intimacy, it enhances it.

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Yes….I do listen to Bobby V.

Okay, okay I’m no saint, and yes I go to porn sites.  People do have various reasons for visiting such sites and there are more reasons why folks engage into this kind of “business” (for the upright entrepreneurs sorry for calling it business. LOL!) . Admit it or not internet porn stars and their movie companies earn BIG bucks. Porn sites have always been, and will always be, a moral issue. Most countries tried to regulate the creation and responsible use of the internet but failed.

Here is a question.  And yes, I know it’s random. Do porn stars work for just for the money, or do they really like it? Like I said…… random.

So, let’s see where was I? Oh, ok,… so, drives and urges are part of being a human. Listen, we take pleasure in different forms, different ways, and of course different levels. Here is where porn can factor in or not. Pleasure for me…. can be a sip of my favorite cocktail. A Sazerac always makes me happy. Someone else may enjoy taking some anal beads up the ass? The coin has two-faces….. so it’s fair to analyze why people (internet users and internet porn stars) are into this stuff.

I once overheard a group of women, giggling and blushing while telling stories about slut movies they secretly watched over the weekend. They’re comparing asses! One even jokingly said the tighter the ass the better.  Here is where the analyzing cums in. So, do we watch for pleasure? Gossip? Education?  Is it to be shared with a group or just for singular pleasure?

The internet has given us great information and freedom but always remember that with great freedom comes great responsibilities too.

A pleasure you can satisfy right now is checking out keeping-secrets.com.

Miss Toy always wants to hear from you.

What do you think?

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