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NO…no…no it’s C-O-C-K -cock- not J-O-C-K

A cock ring is most often used to make an erect penis harder and bigger, to keep it that way for a longer amount of time, and to delay and heighten orgasm.  Cock rings work by constricting blood flow, keeping blood in the shaft of the penis.  When a wearer finally does ejaculate, the sensation is more intense, since it took a longer time to come, and because the penis is filled with additional blood.

Men use cock rings with partners and/or by themselves.  Some are actual rings as their name suggests, made of metal or rubber.  Since these cock rings are not adjustable, the right size needs to be chosen for a proper fit.If not…OUCH!  For example, one that fits too tightly could be hard to remove and could cut off circulation in the penis entirely.  Metal rings can cause a rash or other skin reactions in some men, so this is something to consider when shopping around.  Adjustable cock rings made of rawhide or leather straps are easier for beginners to use since the fit can be changed, and taking them off is more manageable.  Avoid using cock ring substitutes; rubber bands, binder clips, and vices, for example, cause too much constriction.

Cock rings fit over the shaft and the testicles/scrotum when a man is not erect.  Ball by ball, the testicles go through, then the penis shaft dives in head first through the remaining ring space.  The ideal cock ring stays in place when the penis is soft, yet it can fairly easily slip off or unsnap when the penis is hard.  Lube can be added to make putting rings on and taking them off a little easier — something that works for finger and toe rings, too. These are great for men with ED issues.

O.k. now, for safety and pleasure, a cock ring needs to increase the size of the erection only slightly.  If you notice more pronounced swelling, then the fit is too tight.  In that case, take the cock ring off immediately.  It’s also vital for men to take off their cock ring at the first sign of pain or if the genitals feel cold.  In addition, it’s dangerous to leave a ring on for too long, including wearing one to sleep when spontaneous erections are all the rage.

WARNING….WARNING…WARNING!!!!!

An erection of several hours can cause blood coagulation in the penis, making it difficult to lose the erection.  This is called priapism, a prolonged erection.  Since new blood cannot enter the penis, this can be severely painful and cause permanent damage to the erectile tissue.  If this happens to you, seek medical attention as soon as possible, and don’t worry — the staff at the ER has seen this before.

Another place you might want to forgo a cock ring around your penis is the airport.

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LOOK…there is an old pussy on the loose!

Kids, I wrote about this earlier, but I thought it deserved another glance.

There is often a belief in society that men enjoy sex much more than women.  (crazy!)  Women often worry about issues such as pregnancy, they have their hands full with too many things, or they aren’t happy with their body. Yet they continue to engage in sexual activities as a way to keep their partner happy.That called fucking without fun. Women are very good at doing what is going to keep others happy. It is often a part of their very giving nature.

Some people say that many women enjoy sex more as they get older. There are many researchers who will tell you it has to do with changes in the body. A woman may find it easier to have an orgasm when she is in her 30’s. She may have come to terms with how her body looks or be with the same partner long enough to be very comfortable communicating what it is that she wants.

This results in sex becoming something that a woman can enjoy and look forward to when she is older. It has more to do with intimacy than with just being sexy for someone. Since sex isn’t the core of the relationship when you are older and the pressure is off a woman to look perfect and to perform perfectly. This can help it to be something enjoyable instead of another time when she continues to critic herself.

Listen, most men won’t admit it, but they often focused on their own sexual needs when they were younger as well. Older men are known to be able to please a woman better. More women are opening up to tell others how much they enjoy sex as they mature. This used to be a taboo subject so it was just assumed that they didn’t really participate in it or enjoy it. Yet that seems to be very far from the truth.

Another BIG reason  more mature women find sex extremely gratifying. . .. ? It is exciting to have the freedom to explore their sexuality.  Yep, I said it freedom.

Maturity brings freedom.

miss toy

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What’s Your Sign??

Homosexual dating has become much more widespread and accepted in Western culture, allowing both gays and lesbians the chance to reach out to one another beyond that of closed doors. Now there are many ways you can have a rewarding homosexual dating experience, so don’t be afraid to get out there and explore all of the potential relationships you can create at a wonderful same-sex communities.

True love knows no boundaries, has no discrimination and only wishes to be shared with another who returns the same emotions.
Gay dating is about finding someone who feels the same way you do,  (same as straight folks), enjoys spending time with you, treats you with respect and makes you feel like an equal. It is about being apart of a relationship with mutual understanding, which has the potential to forge a strong connection between both you and your partner.
Like any dating experience, there will be certain setbacks and struggles that you may face during homosexual dating.

As a gay or lesbian, you should not feel that you need to grab any opportunity that comes your way ( that applies to straight too).  There is no harm in starting as friends and working slowly into the relationship to discover how much you have in common. As long as you are honest with your feelings, you should have no problem finding a partner.

In general dating is how you can establish an amazing connection with someone who understands you, and loves you for who you are with no questions asked. Even though you will meet some people who are destined to give you a hard time with your sexual preference, all you can do is trust your own judgments, be true to yourself, and give your love and time to those

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O.K. let’s do this….. !

Everybody seems obsessed by different sex techniques, all that “how to” or “tips ”, but how about impulsiveness and spontaneity. Have we lost it? The sex essence, impulsive desire, passionate sex, when both of you are so horny and want it now. Seems like we forgot about the pleasure of a spontaneous quickie. Most of us prefer to bring books and magazines to our bedrooms and make it a kind of sex seminar instead of simply having pleasure and enjoying.
Let’s make this clear….  quickie doesn’t mean bad sex, or not quality sex. It’s just a variant of it and having sex in a forbidden place or situation may actually bring you closer to your partner and improve your relationship. It’s like sharing with your partner something nobody else can share and creating a tight intimate connection between the two of you. It’s like having a secret no one but you two will ever know.
The additional dose of adrenaline and the thought of being discovered while having quickie in a public place….well…AWESOME!  By the way, where was the last public place you sucked and fucked? The naughtiness of the situation will wind up both of you and lead to a very passionate and delicious sex, which actually can be much better than the common sexual intercourse you have in your beds.
I know the next question. What about the foreplay? The importance of which has been discussed and highlighted in hundreds of articles and books on sexology. Skip it, the adrenaline in your blood will compensate for any foreplay. Quickie sex is about experimenting. It’s a good chance to apply your sexual creativeness and sex fantasies in the real world. Picture your lover held against the wall, or bend over the stares with her breasts outside the bra, her panties around her knees, it can easily be an erotic fantasy.
So, what holds you back from having quickies? Some people think that by showing their partner that they want quick sex they offend them in some way. But in fact, if you’re horny and lusting for your partner, wanting quick sex will only assure your partner that you still want him/her.
The most amazing thing about a quickie is freedom. There is no right place or time for quickie. It’s only up to you and your imagination not any circumstances. Any circumstance doesn’t matter if you want it now, and if you want it badly. No doubt you will find both place and time, as there is variety to choose between. Look around how many options you have: office table, garden hedge, even toilet will do if you’re really desperate. Keep your feelings fresh and experiment with them. Enjoy, just try not to hurt the esthetic feelings of unwilling witnesses.

Miss Toy

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Opinions are like assholes…..some you like..some you wanna rip apart.

The anus is a sensual erogenous zone. It’s directly connected with the nervous system that conveys the feeling of sexual pleasure to the mind and evokes a physical response. Sexual excitement can turn palms red, wet the vagina, and rhythmically contract anal muscles( that means cumin’).  For heterosexual couples if during anal coitus, the  clitoris, vagina,or penis aren’t stimulated…. . They can get sensual pleasure from voluptuous anal manipulations.  And for homosexual couples if during anal coitus the vagina or penis aren’t stimulated…. . They can get the same  oooo lala from butt play.

Anal sex toys vary greatly.

The whole range of these devices suit both men, and women to the same extent. There are toys for self-stimulation and for games between partners.

Anal sex toys, can be easily distinguished because of their wide base or handle crosscut valve. The reason for this is to avoid unwanted penetration of separate parts or the whole device into the anus. YIKES! You see, our bowels are very long and the rectum isn’t straight at all (key point there so pay attention) but has some curves in the sacral bone and perineum. Consequently, objects can easily fall inside. PLUCK!

Should this happen, immediately visit your doctor and frankly tell about your “loss” whether you want it or not. The doctor will never cast distrustful and astonished glances at a patient. He or she knows that such things happen and even more often than we can imagine. Surgeons extract all manner of things from people’s bowels like  dildos made of thick rubber, spray cans, coca-cola cans, champagne bottles, radio valves, candles, newspapers, ping-pong balls, spade handles, table legs and Hoover attachments. The exquisite refinement of sex has no limits.

Moreover, erotic anal games should not obligatory end with coitus. Anus tongue or finger stimulation will also bring your partner much pleasure.

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