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What’s Your Sign??

Homosexual dating has become much more widespread and accepted in Western culture, allowing both gays and lesbians the chance to reach out to one another beyond that of closed doors. Now there are many ways you can have a rewarding homosexual dating experience, so don’t be afraid to get out there and explore all of the potential relationships you can create at a wonderful same-sex communities.

True love knows no boundaries, has no discrimination and only wishes to be shared with another who returns the same emotions.
Gay dating is about finding someone who feels the same way you do,  (same as straight folks), enjoys spending time with you, treats you with respect and makes you feel like an equal. It is about being apart of a relationship with mutual understanding, which has the potential to forge a strong connection between both you and your partner.
Like any dating experience, there will be certain setbacks and struggles that you may face during homosexual dating.

As a gay or lesbian, you should not feel that you need to grab any opportunity that comes your way ( that applies to straight too).  There is no harm in starting as friends and working slowly into the relationship to discover how much you have in common. As long as you are honest with your feelings, you should have no problem finding a partner.

In general dating is how you can establish an amazing connection with someone who understands you, and loves you for who you are with no questions asked. Even though you will meet some people who are destined to give you a hard time with your sexual preference, all you can do is trust your own judgments, be true to yourself, and give your love and time to those

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Oil and Water really don’t mix

Are you satisfied with your sex life? Could things be betta? Need a lil’ spice in the bedroom?

Using sexual lubricants during sexual intercourse, masturbation and for use with sex toys enhances the experience for most people. The slippery texture of a lubricant adds to the sensual feel of almost any sexual encounter with a partner or when you are engaged in self-pleasure.  It can also help those women who’s bodies don’t manufacture enough natural lubricant.

It is very important to use the correct lubricant for the sexual activity and other sexual items involved. Certain lubricants disintegrate condoms, others will destroy sex toys, some work better for anal sex and prefferred for masturbation.

There are four types of lubricants: Water-based, petroleum-based, those made from natural oils, and silicone-based. Each has its advantages and disadvantages.

Water-based lubes: These are the most versatile, safe and popular lubricants for all situations. Typically made of de-ionized water, glycerin, and propylene glycol, they’re safe to use with condoms and all forms of barrier birth control. It is rare that water-based lubricants cause irritation, (be not impossible) and they don’t stain clothing. They are safe to ingest, and they come in both flavored and unflavored varieties. They tend to dry out over extended periods, but a little water or saliva will get you slick again.

Petroleum-based lubes: These include Vaseline products, mineral oil products and baby oil. Unfortunately, these products all destroy latex, so they cannot be used with condoms, cervical caps or diaphragms. In addition, they can inflame and irritate the vagina. They also stain clothing. Petroleum-based lubes do tend to last well, so they are often used by men during masturbation.

Natural oil-based lubes:  These are derived from natural oil sources such as nuts or vegetables. Like petroleum-based lubes, they too destroy latex (condoms, diaphragms and cervical caps) and stain clothing. However, they do have one key advantage over petroleum-based lubes: they don’t cause vaginal irritation. This makes them excellent for female [and male] masturbation, unprotected vaginal intercourse, and for massage.

Silicone-based lubes:  These have the benefits of water-based lubricants with the addition of being waterproof, so they may be used in the bath, or the Jacuzzi, or… In addition, they tend to lubricate longer than water-based lubes. Silicone will not hurt latex, so they’re safe with condoms and other forms of barrier birth control; however, they can affect adult toys made from silicone.

So, pick a personal lubricant that’s compatible with your sexual activity,body chemistry, and any birth control or sex toys you are using. There are many companies manufacturing each type of sexual lubricant, so if you don’t like the consistency, scent or other qualities of one lube you have plenty of other choices. Enjoy yourself!

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Wanna see the one-eyed Optometrist ?!

This is different so bear w/me. Please. Ok, so enhancing your love life is something that every long-term relationship eventually requires and it can be done with erotic hypnosis easily and quickly. I said it was different. EH is a type of hypnosis used to affect another person’s sexual perceptions, and to enhance their sexual experiences.The  reduction in sexual inhibitions and increasing arousal are common goals of erotic hypnosis. The most common form of EH is subliminal cd’s, movies, images…etc. Many women use subliminal images or cd’s to increase breast size. Anyway, let’s face it,  sooner or later your love life will be affected by the regular stresses of everyday life and many other factors that may make your love life seem lacking. Often we hear that our partners are too tired to make love or perhaps there is a problem in the relationship that make love-making just a bit more difficult than it used to be. Rite? Who hasn’t been down that road? Erotic hypnosis can keep both of you stimulated, and it helps for you to be able to incorporate playfulness in the bedroom.

Learning how to become more spontaneous when it comes to erotic hypnosis can also help you to improve your love life. The reason for this is because it lets your mate know that you still find them sexy and attractive, which is the key to a great love life. Here are some more tips to making your love life better:

1.    Try to add some spice into your relationship by bringing toys to the bedroom with you. It can really make a huge difference.
2.    Role playing is a great way for you to be able to make your love life a great deal better. It is also a good way to explore fantasies.
3.   Use sexual talk in explicit yet stylish ways.
5.    Use erotic hypnosis to keep the excitement alive.
6.    Having sex in different areas other than the bedroom can spice up any relationship and add a sense of danger to it.
7.    Trying new and different positions can really make a difference in your love life.

There are just so many things that you can do to make your love life better. C’mon give it a try.

I recommend using erotic hypnosis,  or subliminal cd’s as it is a really powerful way to keep the passion alive in your love life.
If you are willing to explore new territories, like erotic hypnosis, it can lead you to a more fulfilling sex life with your partner.

Most of what is needed is an open mind. A good sex life is very important to any relationship and a willingness to do whatever you can to spice things up helps as well.

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Gay or Agatha’s Mystery Dinner Theater?

Am I Gay? I guess this is a question a lot of young people will have asked themselves during their confusing adolescent years. Of course, there are the  lucky ones – the majority –  ( you know the popular kids). Those people for whom their sexuality has never been in any doubt. Not to be one of the majority…..not have the same appetite for the opposite sex does not immediately make anyone gay.

Faced with this feeling of being different, young men and women may react in many different ways. Only a few will cope with the situation easily. Some may become reclusive; some may turn to bullying others; some to drink and drugs. This act, and the feeling of a need to prove themselves to their family and friends, will often only exasperate the problem. It is a time when some may even come to consider suicide! (that’s a new kinda hell)

Puberty, arrives at different times for different people. There is nothing wrong about being a late developer – talk about late. I just discovered people actually get gray pubic hair-. And even once everything is found to be in working order, it is quite normal for the feelings and the desires that arrive around this time to be “strange”, to say the least! The sudden explosion of hormones the body has to try to make some sense out of can for some bring forth quite peculiar urges, fascinations, and attractions.  It could be a teacher; it may be a friend – it could be anyone.

Sexual orientation is not hereditary. It is what you are.

Being gay does come with some burdens that heterosexuals never have to face.   For instance, there is the gay scene – known by all to be notoriously promiscuous – and although it is representative of less than a quarter of all gay people it is what a gay person will always be seen as being a part of. Next there is the whole “coming out” saga. Should you come out to family and friends, at work,… knuckle up or shut-up?? And last  staying “in the closet”, it will not be without some implications.

We now come to the crunch question: How do I know if I am gay? Ouch! These sit-ups hurt. I suppose the simple answer is – you just know.  Gay, straight or bisexual, – you are you, and you are unique. Whatever sexuality you may be, no two people are ever exactly the same – not even identical twins. Be proud of who and what you are!

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PS

Here is a crude question, what makes you “cum”?

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