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Your VAGINA, HIS penis and 3 important questions

 

Sorry, I’ve been sick.

I’m on the mend now. However, while I was down I had time to think of some stuff.

Here are some questions.

1. Is there such a thing as love at first-sight?

2. Do, soul mates matter?

3.  Does size matter? ( and I am talking about both sexes. men can sometimes be too big or small and so can women)

I’d love to read your responses.

I have four more questions but we will get to those at another time.

miss toy

 

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Mr. Pickett seems harder and more stiff.

A cock ring is most often used to make an erect penis harder and bigger.  Cock rings work by constricting blood flow, keeping blood in the shaft of the penis. OUCH. Maybe?  When a wearer finally does ejaculate, the sensation is more intense, since it took a longer time to come, and because the penis is filled with additional blood. POW!!

Men use cock rings with partners and/or by themselves. Yes, by themselves.  Anyway, some are actual rings as their name suggests, made of metal or rubber.  Since these cock rings are not adjustable, the right size needs to be chosen for a proper fit.  For example, one that fits too tightly could be hard to remove and could cut off circulation in the penis entirely.  Metal rings can cause a rash or other skin reactions in some men, so this is something to consider when shopping around. Avoid using cock ring substitutes; rubber bands, binder clips, and vices, for example, cause too much constriction.

So, how do they work? Well, cock rings fit over the shaft and the testicles/scrotum when a man is not erect.  Ball by ball, the testicles go through, then the penis shaft dives in head first through the remaining ring space.  The ideal cock ring stays in place when the penis is soft, yet it can fairly easily slip off or unsnap when the penis is hard.  Lube can be added to make putting rings on and taking them off a little easier — something that works for finger and toe rings, too.

Any questions so far?

For safety and pleasure, a cock ring needs to increase the size of the erection only slightly.  If you notice more pronounced swelling, then the fit is too tight.  In that case, take the cock ring off immediately.  It’s also vital for men to take off their cock ring at the first sign of pain or if the genitals feel cold.  In addition, it’s dangerous to leave a ring on for too long, including wearing one to sleep when spontaneous erections are all the rage. If this happens to you, seek medical attention as soon as possible, and don’t worry — the staff at the ER has seen this before.  Really, trust me they have.

As always have fun, ask questions, and let Miss toy help you.

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How Do You Spell H*E*R*P*E*S?

Just because you get older, it doesn’t mean you can be careless about your choice of sexual partners. For those over 60 years of age, you want to do your part to protect yourself. Both men and women need to take the responsibility for having condoms readily available. While they risk of pregnancy is likely in the past, the risk of sexually transmitted diseases is not.

 

Most individuals over the age of 60 aren’t out hooking up with new partners every weekend. Yet the biggest concern should be the people they have been with in the past. They may have been exposed to a sexually transmitted diseases such as HIV from a partner they were once with. They aren’t able to share that information with you as they don’t know it themselves. That is just too big of a risk to take. Should you decide to be part of a committed relationship or if you wanna screw around when you are over 60. You both should be tested for sexually transmitted diseases though. The time frame for additional testing will depend on how much time has passed since each of you has been with someone else. Your medical professionals can provide all of that information for you.

Only after you get go ahead for the doctor can you stop using protection with that partner. Otherwise, WRAP IT UP! You need to decide on the level of trust you have with that person though. Infidelity is a common issue in our society for people of all ages, not just over 60. If you are worried in the least that you may be exposed to anything due to that issue you need to continue using protection. It is very naïve to assume that because you aren’t a spring chicken anymore that you don’t have to worry about the risk of sexually transmitted diseases. There is no discrimination from them based upon your age. Approximately 20% of the population that has tested positive for HIV is over 60 years of age. In at least half of the cases it is believed that they were exposed to the virus by engaging in unprotected sex after the age of 60.

Some individuals of this age group feel it is disrespectful to bring up the use of condoms.WHY???!!! They don’t want to offend potential partners so they don’t even bring it up. Yet if you aren’t able to discuss the issue of safe sex with someone you plan to fuck then it is best to avoid such activity with them all together.Others simply don’t realize they are still at risk at their age. Seniors can catch colds and genital warts! There has been a great deal of information and education offered on the topic in the last 20 years. This was implemented as the number of individuals over 60 years of age with sexually transmitted diseases was on the rise for several years in a row. When you are in your 60’s, you still have plenty of life ahead of you to enjoy. A healthy sex life should be a an enjoyable part of that life. However, you do need to be very

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Oil and Water really don’t mix

Are you satisfied with your sex life? Could things be betta? Need a lil’ spice in the bedroom?

Using sexual lubricants during sexual intercourse, masturbation and for use with sex toys enhances the experience for most people. The slippery texture of a lubricant adds to the sensual feel of almost any sexual encounter with a partner or when you are engaged in self-pleasure.  It can also help those women who’s bodies don’t manufacture enough natural lubricant.

It is very important to use the correct lubricant for the sexual activity and other sexual items involved. Certain lubricants disintegrate condoms, others will destroy sex toys, some work better for anal sex and prefferred for masturbation.

There are four types of lubricants: Water-based, petroleum-based, those made from natural oils, and silicone-based. Each has its advantages and disadvantages.

Water-based lubes: These are the most versatile, safe and popular lubricants for all situations. Typically made of de-ionized water, glycerin, and propylene glycol, they’re safe to use with condoms and all forms of barrier birth control. It is rare that water-based lubricants cause irritation, (be not impossible) and they don’t stain clothing. They are safe to ingest, and they come in both flavored and unflavored varieties. They tend to dry out over extended periods, but a little water or saliva will get you slick again.

Petroleum-based lubes: These include Vaseline products, mineral oil products and baby oil. Unfortunately, these products all destroy latex, so they cannot be used with condoms, cervical caps or diaphragms. In addition, they can inflame and irritate the vagina. They also stain clothing. Petroleum-based lubes do tend to last well, so they are often used by men during masturbation.

Natural oil-based lubes:  These are derived from natural oil sources such as nuts or vegetables. Like petroleum-based lubes, they too destroy latex (condoms, diaphragms and cervical caps) and stain clothing. However, they do have one key advantage over petroleum-based lubes: they don’t cause vaginal irritation. This makes them excellent for female [and male] masturbation, unprotected vaginal intercourse, and for massage.

Silicone-based lubes:  These have the benefits of water-based lubricants with the addition of being waterproof, so they may be used in the bath, or the Jacuzzi, or… In addition, they tend to lubricate longer than water-based lubes. Silicone will not hurt latex, so they’re safe with condoms and other forms of barrier birth control; however, they can affect adult toys made from silicone.

So, pick a personal lubricant that’s compatible with your sexual activity,body chemistry, and any birth control or sex toys you are using. There are many companies manufacturing each type of sexual lubricant, so if you don’t like the consistency, scent or other qualities of one lube you have plenty of other choices. Enjoy yourself!

If you need a place to buy lubes check out http://www.keeping-secrets.com

100% discreet. All the lube types mentioned here are available at this site

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Arsenic, Ol’ Lace and a Boner

 

So, the generation gap is alive and well when it comes to many issues in our society. Sex is one of them and so the older generations are turning to the internet as the perfect place to freely talk about it. Their younger co-workers, friends, and certainly their own children don’t want to discuss it with them. GROSS!! Can you see asking your daddy “cockrings or anal beads?” These days more and more people are living healthier lifestyles until late in life. This means there is no reason why someone over the age of 50 can’t be face down ass up. It doesn’t matter if they have been with the same person for years or if they are newly on the market. FRESH-MEAT!

There is a great deal of information to be found online too about how sex is for those over 50. Really….. kids…. anyone at any age. Individuals who are experiencing low libido, E.D. or a variety of other problems that are sexual in nature can find out more about it. WHOOSH! That is why it is called the information supa-highway. People can get support because they know that they aren’t alone in what they are going though. A person can simply choose to read articles that are posted online. Search engines are a great way to be able to narrow down the topics searches on. You can collect the information you want from the privacy of your home without feeling self-conscious about it. This is also why Adult and Porn websites are booming.

Anyway, there are plenty of forums where other people can read your posts and respond to them (something I have been looking for here. Hint…hint). And you can do your part by reading what others need and responding. This is a great way to give back the support that has been given to you along your road to sexual happiness.

It seems that there are more and more individuals of all ages out there sharing their stories of having sex. Some of them are fun while others are full of questions. Does size matter? Does your girlfriend have a big pussy? Are wrinkles on the ball-sac sexy? You do need to make sure that you get reliable information though. Just because there is something written on the internet doesn’t make it true. DO I NEED TO REPEAT THAT?!

Still, what you do get from other people who have been through similar experiences can give you something to think about. Besides who doesn’t like to see a pic of a nice dick?

Oh, sorry kids Richard is calling….. .

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