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Your VAGINA, HIS penis and 3 important questions

 

Sorry, I’ve been sick.

I’m on the mend now. However, while I was down I had time to think of some stuff.

Here are some questions.

1. Is there such a thing as love at first-sight?

2. Do, soul mates matter?

3.  Does size matter? ( and I am talking about both sexes. men can sometimes be too big or small and so can women)

I’d love to read your responses.

I have four more questions but we will get to those at another time.

miss toy

 

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Oil and Water really don’t mix

Are you satisfied with your sex life? Could things be betta? Need a lil’ spice in the bedroom?

Using sexual lubricants during sexual intercourse, masturbation and for use with sex toys enhances the experience for most people. The slippery texture of a lubricant adds to the sensual feel of almost any sexual encounter with a partner or when you are engaged in self-pleasure.  It can also help those women who’s bodies don’t manufacture enough natural lubricant.

It is very important to use the correct lubricant for the sexual activity and other sexual items involved. Certain lubricants disintegrate condoms, others will destroy sex toys, some work better for anal sex and prefferred for masturbation.

There are four types of lubricants: Water-based, petroleum-based, those made from natural oils, and silicone-based. Each has its advantages and disadvantages.

Water-based lubes: These are the most versatile, safe and popular lubricants for all situations. Typically made of de-ionized water, glycerin, and propylene glycol, they’re safe to use with condoms and all forms of barrier birth control. It is rare that water-based lubricants cause irritation, (be not impossible) and they don’t stain clothing. They are safe to ingest, and they come in both flavored and unflavored varieties. They tend to dry out over extended periods, but a little water or saliva will get you slick again.

Petroleum-based lubes: These include Vaseline products, mineral oil products and baby oil. Unfortunately, these products all destroy latex, so they cannot be used with condoms, cervical caps or diaphragms. In addition, they can inflame and irritate the vagina. They also stain clothing. Petroleum-based lubes do tend to last well, so they are often used by men during masturbation.

Natural oil-based lubes:  These are derived from natural oil sources such as nuts or vegetables. Like petroleum-based lubes, they too destroy latex (condoms, diaphragms and cervical caps) and stain clothing. However, they do have one key advantage over petroleum-based lubes: they don’t cause vaginal irritation. This makes them excellent for female [and male] masturbation, unprotected vaginal intercourse, and for massage.

Silicone-based lubes:  These have the benefits of water-based lubricants with the addition of being waterproof, so they may be used in the bath, or the Jacuzzi, or… In addition, they tend to lubricate longer than water-based lubes. Silicone will not hurt latex, so they’re safe with condoms and other forms of barrier birth control; however, they can affect adult toys made from silicone.

So, pick a personal lubricant that’s compatible with your sexual activity,body chemistry, and any birth control or sex toys you are using. There are many companies manufacturing each type of sexual lubricant, so if you don’t like the consistency, scent or other qualities of one lube you have plenty of other choices. Enjoy yourself!

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100% discreet. All the lube types mentioned here are available at this site

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Arsenic, Ol’ Lace and a Boner

 

So, the generation gap is alive and well when it comes to many issues in our society. Sex is one of them and so the older generations are turning to the internet as the perfect place to freely talk about it. Their younger co-workers, friends, and certainly their own children don’t want to discuss it with them. GROSS!! Can you see asking your daddy “cockrings or anal beads?” These days more and more people are living healthier lifestyles until late in life. This means there is no reason why someone over the age of 50 can’t be face down ass up. It doesn’t matter if they have been with the same person for years or if they are newly on the market. FRESH-MEAT!

There is a great deal of information to be found online too about how sex is for those over 50. Really….. kids…. anyone at any age. Individuals who are experiencing low libido, E.D. or a variety of other problems that are sexual in nature can find out more about it. WHOOSH! That is why it is called the information supa-highway. People can get support because they know that they aren’t alone in what they are going though. A person can simply choose to read articles that are posted online. Search engines are a great way to be able to narrow down the topics searches on. You can collect the information you want from the privacy of your home without feeling self-conscious about it. This is also why Adult and Porn websites are booming.

Anyway, there are plenty of forums where other people can read your posts and respond to them (something I have been looking for here. Hint…hint). And you can do your part by reading what others need and responding. This is a great way to give back the support that has been given to you along your road to sexual happiness.

It seems that there are more and more individuals of all ages out there sharing their stories of having sex. Some of them are fun while others are full of questions. Does size matter? Does your girlfriend have a big pussy? Are wrinkles on the ball-sac sexy? You do need to make sure that you get reliable information though. Just because there is something written on the internet doesn’t make it true. DO I NEED TO REPEAT THAT?!

Still, what you do get from other people who have been through similar experiences can give you something to think about. Besides who doesn’t like to see a pic of a nice dick?

Oh, sorry kids Richard is calling….. .

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