Tag Archives: marriage

How important is gettin it on??

Sex is an important part of your life and your relationship.  (Doh!)

It’s essential that you enjoy it. The conditioning of your body to be sexual and reproduce is the strongest on the planet. It is the second strongest instinct on the planet next to that of survival. However, sexual desire can change over time, and can increase or decrease depending on life’s situations.

Do you worry about what is “normal” or “abnormal” sexual activity? Wonder why or what causes the change in your sex drive?  In response to outside forces such as stress and emotional experiences, sexual desires often change.

Here are 5 tips to re-sexualize ( i made that up) your self and improve your sex live:

One. Your Body is an Energetic Snapshots of Your Past Love
Encounters

Have you noticed that when involved in certain intimate relationships, your self-esteem either rises or declines?  This is largely because you energetically perceive the thoughts that the significant other has of you. These thoughts are  totally unrelated to who you really are, but you begin to resonate with that energy already in your energetic field.

Two. Create Room for Increased Sexual Expression

Is guilt within you about sex? Is sex an important part of your life? Does work or other activities overcrowd your schedule so that you don’t have time to express loving sexuality? Send an intentional energetic message into your world that you plan to break this pattern.  As you begin to release the energetic charge from past mistakes, healing and changes can occur.  I promise!

Three. You Are Born With Sex Appeal

Sexual energy is the life force energy within you. It is at the very core of your energy bodies and the way it operates.

Four. Energetically Release Conflict, Anger and Negative
Feelings

I think this is the hardest to do. Unresolved conflict or unexpressed anger can definitely put a damper on desire, as can negative feelings, secrets or emotional upset. As you carry around negative feelings about your partner, your level of attraction for that person can wane dramatically, sometimes never to return.

Five.  Releasing Foreign Energy Time-Line Visualization ( i know, i know…hippie talk)

These thoughts and negativity  affect you now and you can begin to release it by using the a time-line visualization technique.
1.    Imagine a time line in front of you a time line from birth to your current age.
2.    Create a mark for every year of your life on the time line.
3.    Allow a dark spot to appear on the time line for every negative experience or for other peoples’ thoughts you collected  and absorbed
4.    Create an absorbing rose or other symbol at the beginning of the time line.
5.    Slide this absorbing symbol along the time line allowing it to pull out all the dark spots of memories, negative experiences and foreign energy from each year on the time line. Let the symbol get bigger and bigger as it absorbs all the dark spots on the time line.
6.   When you’ve absorbed all the spots on the time line and the symbol reaches the end – move the symbol out in front of you and let it explode like fireworks.
7.    Imagine a golden sun above your head filled with your own vital energy.
8.    Replenish your energy by bringing the golden sun into your body and space. Energetically release conflict, anger and negative feelings to clear the path to renewed intimacy with yourself and your partner

I wanna hear your thoughts.

leave me a comment.

Miss Toy

Advertisements
Tagged , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , ,

1, 2, 3, FIRE!!!

Now, this does not speak for ALL women or men. But, as women, we are usually at a loss as to how to touch a man’s penis in a way that is wonderfully pleasuring to him. Sometimes, men want us to bring them to orgasm manually, BUT there are some of you who are clueless as to how to do this. How tightly do ya’ hold his dick? How far up and down his Johnson do we move our hands? And the list goes on…. .

Listen, getting a man to experience orgasm as we touch him is sometimes a lengthy process. You can feel so clumsy about it, and we often ARE clumsy about it. For instance your hand or arm getting tired before he cums… .  So, then in frustration he moves our hand aside and does it himself.

Now bear in mind, that every man does himself differently. They all have techniques that feel best to them. So you may have to experiment, ask questions (in a sexy tone) and watch how he does it himself. Ok. So, before I say this next thing,  I know some of you are gonna cringe, but try offering to let him cum in your mouth as  inducement. Remember that as they get closer to cumming, they often change techniques. Watch for that. Please don’t  ask questions when he is close to cumming. Gently playing with his balls as you watch is a great way to help out.

So, if you can get your man to show you how HE does it, you are miles ahead! But if you can’t try these tips out.

1) Place your body where you can rest your wrist on his hip or tummy and still be able to move your hand an inch and a half or two inches by flexing your wrist back and forth. This will help with your fatigue factor.

2) Wrap your first finger and thumb around his dick two inches below his glans. Now you will move your hand from that location up to just below his crown, but not over his crown. That is your stroking range.

3) Stroke SLOW. Don’t wear yourself out by doing it fast. Nice slow movements up and down his shaft are the key

4) Breathe in his ear, and whisper sexual fantasies to him if you want to shorten the process.

5) How tightly do you grip? Not very tight at all.

6) When he is beginning to stiffen throughout his body, and breathing harder, DON”T speed up.  Just wait, make him suffer as his body begins to beg for release. When his penis begins to swell slightly, and his balls begin to pulse, put your head in his lap and tell him out-loud to cum in your mouth. Then put your lips around his cock and enjoy his gift to you. You will feel his gratitude, you will see it in his eyes, you will experience it the next day, ALL day.

There are toys that can help with this.

Your guy may enjoy a natural cock sucker,  oils, or watching a dvd while jackin that dick.

Remember talk, talk…talk. Miss Toy

Tagged , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , ,