Now, this does not speak for ALL women or men. But, as women, we are usually at a loss as to how to touch a man’s penis in a way that is wonderfully pleasuring to him. Sometimes, men want us to bring them to orgasm manually, BUT there are some of you who are clueless as to how to do this. How tightly do ya’ hold his dick? How far up and down his Johnson do we move our hands? And the list goes on…. .
Listen, getting a man to experience orgasm as we touch him is sometimes a lengthy process. You can feel so clumsy about it, and we often ARE clumsy about it. For instance your hand or arm getting tired before he cums… . So, then in frustration he moves our hand aside and does it himself.
Now bear in mind, that every man does himself differently. They all have techniques that feel best to them. So you may have to experiment, ask questions (in a sexy tone) and watch how he does it himself. Ok. So, before I say this next thing, I know some of you are gonna cringe, but try offering to let him cum in your mouth as inducement. Remember that as they get closer to cumming, they often change techniques. Watch for that. Please don’t ask questions when he is close to cumming. Gently playing with his balls as you watch is a great way to help out.
So, if you can get your man to show you how HE does it, you are miles ahead! But if you can’t try these tips out.
1) Place your body where you can rest your wrist on his hip or tummy and still be able to move your hand an inch and a half or two inches by flexing your wrist back and forth. This will help with your fatigue factor.
2) Wrap your first finger and thumb around his dick two inches below his glans. Now you will move your hand from that location up to just below his crown, but not over his crown. That is your stroking range.
3) Stroke SLOW. Don’t wear yourself out by doing it fast. Nice slow movements up and down his shaft are the key
4) Breathe in his ear, and whisper sexual fantasies to him if you want to shorten the process.
5) How tightly do you grip? Not very tight at all.
6) When he is beginning to stiffen throughout his body, and breathing harder, DON”T speed up. Just wait, make him suffer as his body begins to beg for release. When his penis begins to swell slightly, and his balls begin to pulse, put your head in his lap and tell him out-loud to cum in your mouth. Then put your lips around his cock and enjoy his gift to you. You will feel his gratitude, you will see it in his eyes, you will experience it the next day, ALL day.
There are toys that can help with this.
Your guy may enjoy a natural cock sucker, oils, or watching a dvd while jackin that dick.
Remember talk, talk…talk. Miss Toy