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What’s Your Sign??

Homosexual dating has become much more widespread and accepted in Western culture, allowing both gays and lesbians the chance to reach out to one another beyond that of closed doors. Now there are many ways you can have a rewarding homosexual dating experience, so don’t be afraid to get out there and explore all of the potential relationships you can create at a wonderful same-sex communities.

True love knows no boundaries, has no discrimination and only wishes to be shared with another who returns the same emotions.
Gay dating is about finding someone who feels the same way you do,  (same as straight folks), enjoys spending time with you, treats you with respect and makes you feel like an equal. It is about being apart of a relationship with mutual understanding, which has the potential to forge a strong connection between both you and your partner.
Like any dating experience, there will be certain setbacks and struggles that you may face during homosexual dating.

As a gay or lesbian, you should not feel that you need to grab any opportunity that comes your way ( that applies to straight too).  There is no harm in starting as friends and working slowly into the relationship to discover how much you have in common. As long as you are honest with your feelings, you should have no problem finding a partner.

In general dating is how you can establish an amazing connection with someone who understands you, and loves you for who you are with no questions asked. Even though you will meet some people who are destined to give you a hard time with your sexual preference, all you can do is trust your own judgments, be true to yourself, and give your love and time to those

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LOOK!!! She has a big pussy and likes to touch it.

Ever notice how men talk about ‘having sex’ while women talk about ‘making love?’ That kind of hits the nail on the head when it comes to how men and women approach sex.  Men are pretty direct when it comes to sex — they’re easily,  aroused.  Women are much more complex, (BING!) and require a more complicated experience to become aroused.

While that sounds simple, (and it is!) if you are going to improve your sexual technique, you must keep it in mind constantly.

So let’s have a look at this ‘more complicated experience,’ and see what we can learn.
Women enjoy sex with more of their senses, touch, smell, taste, and hearing.  Notice that I did NOT say sight.  Women get aroused by sight as well as the other senses, but this is secondary.  But who does like looking at a tight ass??

Women love things like ‘taking your time’, ‘anticipation’, and ‘foreplay’ because they make the experience richer and involve more senses.

Lets look at a few of these in more detail:

1. Hearing.  Women love to hear romantic sensual things.  Notice that is sensual not sexual language.  Women love to hear you describe your feelings.  Men are more direct and want to hear things like, “you are so big.”  Women like to hear things like, “your skin is so soft.”

2. Touching.  Women love touching and stroked. Stroking, cuddling, and touching is all great stuff that arouses women.  Stroke her lightly with the tips of your fingers up and down her body, avoiding sexual areas.  There will be lots of time for that later!  Build up tension and anticipation.

3. Smelling. This could be scented candles or incense.  Women love smelling and being smelled.

4. Tasting. Women love getting fed all kinds of wonderful things like strawberries, sweets, wine and for some women jizz.

5. Sight.  While generally women are not turned on by sight, most women love to look into your eyes.  This kind of ultra-romantic stuff is a huge turn-on for most women.

6. Kissing.   This is my fav. .Kissing is a kind of touching.  Our lips have tons of nerve endings in them which is why contact with our lips feels good.  Make kissing an experience instead of jumping right in with your tongue! and if you cant…baby…please learn how.  Lightly brush her lips with yours and then pull away.  Keep doing this ‘brushing’ contact, and you will excite the nerve ending on both of your lips.  Play with your lips lightly and gently.

Remember when you were learning to drive?  One of the first things you learn is – don’t gun the engine while its cold!  Well sex is just like that!

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There are 3 types of Dick’s in this world.

Sexual health is defined as the state of sexuality related to physical, emotional, mental and social well-being. Geez. Did I say that? O, and kids, sorry to be tardy to the party, but like I said last week moving is a big, stinky, bitch in tight panties.

A positive and respectful approach towards sexuality and sexual relationships is vital for attaining a sound sexual health.  Your feelings have a great impact on your sexual appetite. For example, if you are feeling anxious, bitter or angry towards your spouse you will not feel like having a sex with them. Or, if your boyfriend is a total ass and says jacked up crap and you wanna pop ’em in the chops. You may not wanna suck a dick.  Anywho.

A man’s  sexual health is of immense concern nowadays. You could be the most affectionate man in the world but if you are unable to satisfy your spouse in the bed it can lead to relationship issues. Sex is very important for a relationship to go smooth. Your inability to last in bed can turn your relationship bitter. Anxiety builds up in your mind making sex one of the most traumatic things in your life. If y’all a’int doing it ….you are done. Various psychological factors are also considered while discussing a mans sexual health. Men’s failure to achieve their goal in life can put them into a state of depression. Avoidance to sex becomes natural in such a situation.
Other topics relating to a mans sexual health are as follows:
•    Desire
•    Pleasure
•    Orgasm
•    Rapid or delayed ejaculation
•    Prostate health
•    Masturbation

A decrease in the production of testosterone in men makes them loose their desire in sex. Low sexual desire can also be the result of some chronic disease, hormonal imbalances, stress, fatigue or a poor body image.  Most of the men today suffer from erectile dysfunction.  And I  wonder about this? Could it be something in the water? Or, is it just b/c the baby boomers have had their last hoorah? So, ED is a sexual dysfunction that  can immobilize a man to develop an erection of the penis. Health problems such as high blood-pressure, cardiovascular disease, diabetes, high cholesterol or depression contribute to erectile dysfunction. Anybody can be affected by this illness at any stage of life, but more often it’s seen in men above the age of 40 years. BTW, I a podcast on prostate health.

Men usually hesitate to talk about their sexual health as it might hurt their ego.  They take it as a curse and begin living with it. Living under such a stress can lead to depression. If your husband feels the same, try taking to him. Make him feel comfortable and share his feelings with you.

A mans sexual health needs considerate assistance. Do not dither to talk about your sexual problems with your spouse, doctor, close friend, pastor, and G*D for that matter. Just talk. Please.

And please listen to Mperfect on sextalkradionetowork.com and when you are done there come on over to http://www.keeping-secrets.com for some H-O-T fun!!!

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Age is a number, but dialing can wear you out!!!!

Maintaining your Sex Drive as you get Older

Maintaining your sex drive as you get older is very important to most people. Sex is a satisfying part of their lifestyle and not one they want to lose. It is normal for a person’s sex drive to diminish some though as they get older. Specifically those over 50 may find it is harder to get into the mood or even to get your body to physically comply with what you want to do.

There are some things you can do though to help you maintain your sex drive as you get older. Living a healthy lifestyle is going to make a very significant impact for you so don’t blow it off. What you choose to do today is going to affect your health and your level of sexual desire as you get older. Put the candy bar down.

Eating a well balanced diet is something you should incorporate into your life. If you aren’t doing it now, then start to make some small changes. As time goes on you will adjust to them and they will become a second nature to you. Consuming too much caffeine can be a problem. If you aren’t getting all the vitamins and nutrients that you need from food, make sure you take a quality supplement.

Make sure you take the time to exercise at least 30 minutes each day as well.  And yes, I find this hard to do. Walking is very common for older individuals as it is low impact but very good for the body. Some malls and other locations have indoor walking clubs too which are perfect when the weather turns cold. Being happy with your body is also important. Too many people start to notice all the small details as they get older. I mean really, gravity hits everyone. They will see every line, wrinkle, lump, hump, and bump on their body so they aren’t comfortable during sex. They don’t have much self confidence that they are desirable. They aren’t able to let go and enjoy what is taking place because they are too focused on such details.

Let me ask you….. . Do you know someone like that?

Reducing the amount of stress in your life is important. The toll it can take on both your body and your mind is more than most of us imagine. Not everyone can be worry free when they are older though. If your finances or relationships aren’t in the best format, it can be hard to get past it. Can the church say Amen??  I have noticed that when a relationship is in trouble…. sex is the first thing that goes.  ADIOS. Do your very best though to reduce as many stressful issues from your life as you can.  Stupid people.

It will certainly help with your sex drive because you won’t be preoccupied with other things.

Both men and women have the ability to be turned on sexually until a very late age in life. Get things poppin’ again with a sex toy(s). I am happy to recommend what I can, but take some time and check out http://www.keeping-secrets.com. It’s very discreet and very private

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Hell….high water…and not so hot coochie!

There are some significant changes that take place in a woman’s life.

One of them is menopause.

I think a training bra needs to be added to the list too.

Menopause marks the end of the ability to conceive a child. Yea! No more tampons. There will be no more menstrual cycles once the woman is in complete menopause. And don’t ask is once in menopause always in menopause?

Now, it can take years to go from the start to completely finishing it. Most women start the process around 45 and finish around 60. There are exceptions. My cousin went through complete menopause at 28 and once a woman has a complete hysterectomy…well..it’s a wrap!

Now, here is a common misconception.

Women who have gone through menopause no longer have any sexual desire. They may continue to engage in the activity to keep their partner happy, but they don’t get any pleasure out of it. This is certainly not the truth though. Ok, can anyone tell me who the hell came up w/that?

Many women over the age of 60 are in very fulfilling sexual relationships.

They love not having to worry about their period. And kids, who wouldn’t?

what are they called in Europe?

Let me pause for a second and say men, also have to deal w/a woman’s cycle (My dad use to say cycle. Made it sound like a factory), her mood swings, and sometimes physical discomfort.

Anyway getting back to no worries….. . The change of life eliminates an unwanted pregnancy very late in life. This new freedom means a woman can fully focus on the act of sexual activity and not the various repercussions. Many women experience problems with the vagina being dry after menopause (the ol’ powder-puff puss). Vaginal dryness can cause a mental block with sexual intercourse. This can make it hard to get pleasure out of sex. There are some great products on the market that will allow you to moisturize the vagina without any negative side effects. It is a good idea for a woman with such issues to see a gynecologist for a complete evaluation. They can come up with a natural remedy that can prevent ongoing issues. Don’t be embarrassed to discuss the issue with your doctor either. They deal with such issues all the time. They will know how to help you get back on the saddle.

Communicate, talk, and listen it is important to discuss what has taken place.

So, what do you think? I wanna hear from some men out there.

Ladies what natural remedies have you found help?   Miss Toy

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